Why do woman feel LESS intimidated by me when they realize I don't like anybody?

[Anonymous]

I'm an unattractive guy & most woman literally get scared, nervous, around me when they first see me

They flee when they see me & look down if we make eye contact

But eventually once they see I don't have friends, or a job,& that I don't ever talk to the opposite sexI'm not seen as a threat anymoreWhy?

[beechman2129]

It sounds like you are not assertive and lack confidence. That kills attractiveness with girls. Grow a pair and get something done.

[Anonymous]

I think they feel you are not a threat to them when they get to know details about you