What’s a good way to test if a guy likes me at work?

[Tinytina09]

[virtue2332]

Most of the guys I know as well as myself aren't a big fan of these tests and games you all decide on putting us through. We also don't like to have to interpret what you want or need or like based on coded communication that we don't have the keys to decode. I was however impressed and gave at least a chance to the majority of the women who were direct and communicated directly. If you like him or interested in him communicate that to him. Especially in a work environment comming from someone in upper management with sexual harassment and me too it's not an area that any business wants a problem in and if he is career oriented and intelligent It is something he is cognizant of.

[Whatever2929292]

Ask him. You could ask him whatever say if you like coffee or tea or whatever (even if you don't coffee shops many times have other stuff they offer like some food and other soft drinks) and say hey there is this coffee shop or something I don't know if you like Starbucks or whatever else there is. See if he would be interested in going.

If yes then see how it goes, if no then cut your losses and now even though it sucks you don't have to wonder anymore, and if you get another answer leave him with your number and now the ball is in his court on what he wants to do. You already done your part.

That would be the BEST way to find out. Best of luck

[NathanDavis]

ask him if he likes you... 50/50 chances that you will find out if he actually likes you, good odds... considering the circumstances

[Tinytina09]

@NathanDavis One of my other coworkers said “he likes you and thinks you’re cool.” Also he added me on social media and messaged me once late on a Friday. All his messages have smileys in them. He also mentioned about meeting up for coffee and working one day. We work remotely.

[NathanDavis]

ask him... if he would like to go out with you and get some coffee this weekend

[Tinytina09]

He doesn’t live nearby tho LOL were remote so he lives kinda far. He’ll be in town sometime tho I think

[NathanDavis]

then tell him if he would like to share some coffee time over a video chat this weekend or any day free of work

[Tinytina09]

I think he suddenly likes me because he learned I’m a redhead LOL

[NathanDavis]

ask him if he likes redheads...

[Tinytina09]

But doesn’t like every guy LOL hehe

[NathanDavis]

so... will you finally ask him, or will you spend more time wondering around every single day for weeks and months to come

[Tinytina09]

What would I ask him? Without getting reported for potential harassment? LOL

[NathanDavis]

then I guess we will never know...

[KirbyFan246]

You should ask him about that stuff. He might just be open to having coffee with you.

[Adronicus]

Touch, groom him, even if there's nothing on his shirt, ESPECIALLY if there's nothing on his shirt. Right after make eye contact, smile, lick your lips; if you get no reaction find another.

[Anno2]

Pull your panties down, bend over and say "come here".

[slatyb]

"Hey, guy, would you like to get some lunch/coffee/dinner?"

[Rod_Iron]

When you've both got some time sit down and start chatting him up. One way or the other you'll know what's on his mind.

[spartan55]

Test? Don't do that. It isn't middle school.

[Anonymous]

Put on your big girl panties and ask him out?

[In_Trance]

Don't

[Anonymous]

Don’t do it