I was in shape so why did he constantly criticise me and dump me for someone not in shape?

[Anonymous]

I was seeing this guy but I noticed he criticised me and picked fights with me from the beginning and now he's off with some other girl not in shape at all. So why was he with me then?

[Anonymous]

Same thing happened to me but I left him because he criticized me too much and didn't want to be with me in front of his friends and our colleagues... Then after I had left him, I found all my friends and colleagues saying that I was out of his league and so much for him... So you're probably out of his league, he criticizes you because he doesn't want to admit that, he want to make you feel that he is better and he wants to be superior... You can find someone much better... Being with someone who criticizes you is painful, he will get worse once he feels that a girl loves him and can't leave him or once he gets married, good for you that he left

[Asker]

Damn, you could be right! I had one of his female friends tell me what I'm doing with him. I didn't think much of it at the time

[Opinion Owner]

My friends used to tell from the beginning that he looked nothing beside I used to take it as a joke then I discovered that he lied to me and said that he went a lot of fancy places but then I met his ex friend and he told that he didn't go to any fancy place and he also lied to me about his past dating life and made it feel like it was so much better than it really was

[Sparkie460]

Maybe he realized that you are just out of his league and you deserve better than him. It sounds like he did you a favor by leaving. Now you can find someone better

[Asker]

Thank you! Who knows just strange behavior from the start 🤔 but maybe you are right and maybe I downplay myself

[Sparkie460]

I really doubt there is a problem with you, it's him that has a problem. Just be happy that relationship is over. You don't need that type of negativity in your life

[Wise4myage]

He's got issues and I get the feeling he didn't like you from the beginning. Maybe he stayed till something better came along.

[Asker]

I'm not ugly, nasty and have a good job and apartment in the city. Why did he ever talk to me then. Also this guy had a crappy job and didn't look anything special?

[Wise4myage]

He's an idiot?

[Anonymous]

Because his manipulation (and abuse) didn't work on you. Trying a new girl that he thinks will have lower self esteem (and sadly probably does).

[Asker]

What an idiot that guy is

[Anonymous]

he's way too insecure

[degradingD]

Regular gets boring, human seeks new