How to tell if a guy misses you?

[Anonymous]

The thing is I've been friends with a guy for two months and we shared a connection like he understands me a lot but along the line he just started keeping his distance and that led to series of events but whenever he sees me he goes to update his WhatsApp status to sad cuz we don't talk anymore I don't know if he's hurt

[Iron_Man]

By his actions alone and by the look in his eyes and by his voice tone

[Asker]

He has always been the sweetest 😊 but then he just stopped talking to me and started giving me excuses now we feel like strangers

[Iron_Man]

That’s horrible how long has it been

[Asker]

He compliments me every single time and that made me feel very happy cuz guys don't normally do it

[Iron_Man]

I do

[Asker]

Well we started talking December 28th and he started acting up in February ending and I did everything to make us talk again but I stopped after a while cuz I felt unappreciated

[Iron_Man]

Sorry to hear that it’s been a while now so you don’t have any contact

[Asker]

We live on the same street

[Iron_Man]

He’s basically your neighbor but you don’t look at him he doesn’t look at you you don’t talk on the phone you don’t text you don’t see each other so basically it’s not looking good

[Asker]

Sigh... The time in February when he stopped talking to me without a reason I tried talking to his friend but I didn't know the friend wanted to be neutral on the matter he never asked talked to him like I begged him to but then I didn't know and the friend later told me he loved me and in the mist of the heart ache I was feeling I gave the friend a chance that was stupid but yes I did and ended things with him but the damage has already been done

[Iron_Man]

It’s very simple if you’re still concerned where it keeps you awake at night and when you wake up it’s the first thing on your mind then go over there and knock on his door and just get to the bottom of everything you have nothing to lose but at least you’ll have peace of mind just show a little bit of courage

[Asker]

We only die once right😊 I'll do it today and update you how it went😊

[Asker]

Thanks a lot

[Iron_Man]

That is so awesome most people don’t do that I thought you were going to come back and say no I’m too embarrassed I can’t do it but I’m so proud of you thank you for updating me 😊

[Iron_Man]

You’re very welcome

[Asker]

It would be embarrassing but since it's giving me sleepless nights I'll do it cuz I need and deserve peace of mind

[Iron_Man]

Yes of course I can feel your pain and know exactly where you’re coming from so go ahead and do that today before it gets dark on you.

[Asker]

I will but deep down I feel a change of environment would do more Good than harm to help me heal properly

[Iron_Man]

Yes that’s also true did you just follow me? I got a new follower I was curious

[Asker]

Yes 😁 I didn't know what to do with my thoughts for weeks and you made it seem like nothing 😌 from being sad and depressed to whatever happens happens 😂😂😂 my county they normally say "follow who know road" and that's what I'm doing

[Iron_Man]

Cool where are you in Europe im in the USA

[Asker]

It's nice for someone to think I live in Europe 😁😁😁 well I'm in Africa and Nigeria to be precise

[Iron_Man]

Oh wow ok
I see

[Iron_Man]

But your profile says USA

[Asker]

Really!!!😳 is that even possible🤔

[Iron_Man]

I can see it go take a look

[Asker]

How do I correct it cuz I just signed in with google to avoid filling the forms

[Iron_Man]

Just click on edit profile its all there very simple

[Iron_Man]

Thanks for most helpfil

[Iron_Man]

Helpful

[spartan55]

Depends on what those 'series of events' were.

[Asker]

Like I dated his friend😔 it's stupid and I know it

[spartan55]

Yeah I doubt he misses you then. Why does it matter anyway?

[Asker]

I don't know 🤦‍♀️ I just feel he isn't okay cuz we were friends who could tell each other anything but now he is feeling reluctant 🤦‍♀️ we didn't speak for a while and when we did he didn't feel like he was okay and we weren't even dating 🤷‍♀️ I just wanna know if he misses me/our friendship or not so that I can mend our friendship again before he does something stupid

[Asker]

Firstly I don't know what's wrong with me and I feel you need to know the whole story for you to decide what's best and I won't lie 🤦‍♀️ I'm not okay too cuz I miss him and our friendship but that doesn't mean I wanna date him 🤷‍♀️

[spartan55]

Okay, let's hear it. You can pm me if you want, or write it here.

[Asker]

I think you'll have to follow me

[Asker]

Cuz they said I can't

[spartan55]

Can't follow you when anonymous

[Asker]

But I have followed you and the name is Emiebaby

[spartan55]

Okay, followed you back

[Asker]

You can message me cuz my xper isn't enough to send a private message

[spartan55]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Avicenna]

You usually can’t tell if there’s no contact

[Asker]

I know but I also know that he is very emotional and tends to hide his feelings so I intend asking him directly but then I feel I should just let it be

[Avicenna]

If he first talk to you, move on

[Asker]

Thanks

[Avicenna]

* Doesn’t

[In_Trance]

Ask him

[Asker]

I don't wanna look weak cuz the last time I tried texting him he was just replying with "I'm good"

[In_Trance]

Then you're never going to know

[Asker]

I guess so😔 I really wish he'd miss me the way I miss him and our friendship

[Asker]

Thank you