What does it mean if I’m looking at a guy to get his attention and he does this?

[anonbrunette99]

I look at him whilst I’m walking on the treadmill he does a double take and looks shocked like what is she looking at, I quickly look away as if whoops didn’t mean that then he smiles at me when I look up like “I caught you” . but I felt so intimidated that he didn’t smile at me that I didn’t smile I just given him a blank look when he smiled

how do I show i think he’s cute I keep chickening out and my guess is he’s done trying as anytime I walk past him he doesn’t acknowledge my existence, he used to check me out or smile

[Whatever2929292]

I think just approaching him and talking to him. I am guessing that is the best way to go. Never know when he might start talking to someone else or someone else talking to him.

There is always that chance of rejection but at least you will know. I think playing this looking game sometimes can get uncomfortable especially if neither person will talk to the other...

[anonbrunette99]

Yeah I know all of this is non verbal and the first time he seen me a few weeks ago he smiled at me and I forgot to smile back, maybe I should just ask him a question then introduce myself, and see how he reacts

[Guy13]

Well, let’s see.🙀…she can’t be that ugly🙀🙀-damn she is THAT ugly…. 🧠-how am I going to meet her now. I mean 😪, I hate this gym 🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

[anonbrunette99]

Rude

[Guy13]

Don’t ask a guy if you can’t handle their thinking and humor. Stick with your girlfriend

[RuthlessAggression]

Don't flirt in the gym. I feel disgusting while im in the gym. I don't want to feel like I'm being looked at while I feel disgusting. Most women in the gym, do, too.

if you don't, you're doing it wrong

[anonbrunette99]

Bummer.

[anonbrunette99]

well good thing I can forget about gym crush and use the gym to get hotter so I will meet a equally as nice guy outside of the gym

[RuthlessAggression]

Good girl

[AviatorTom]

Why is it so difficult to be honest? Walk up to the guy and tell him you think he's cute. What have you got to lose?

[Guardian45]

Be bold!

Walk up to him say, "Hi! My name is... How are you? Whats your name? Can I have your number?"

[anonbrunette99]

if he rejects me then what? It wouldn’t affect me I would just go an hour earlier so I don’t bump into him but anyone else I asked seemed to think doing that and getting rejected is a big deal

[Guardian45]

If he rejects you; his loss. NEXT!
I found that a woman who actively pursued me and asked me out was a HUGE TURN ON!

[anonbrunette99]

maybe I won’t ask him out maybe I can smart simple like ask for the time or something then by the way I’m (my name) what’s your name, have you been coming here for long. Surely if he’s interested he will talk more

[Guardian45]

Good line! Good Luck! Report back how it went!

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he’s done and has lost interest.

[anonbrunette99]

does loss of interest generally come from seeing me that often that maybe the novelty is gone or he seen something he didn’t like about me or is it usually because someone different caught his eye so he doesn’t feel as attracted to me as before

[Anonymous]

If you're walking on the treadmill and he looks over at you, start running and give him a cheeky smile.

[_Aragorn]

just say 'hi'

the rest will come...

[driven159]

talk to him stop being a chicken

[anonbrunette99]

what if he has a girlfriend or isn’t interested. Maybe I will try find a way to strike up conversation

[TallAnon]

He knows, he was teasing you. Next step is his.

[anonbrunette99]

Hmmm I think he’s over it cause every time I walked passed him he would look now he doesn’t even turn his head, like trying to get his attention whilst looking at him taken a few attempts usually I’m the one that catches him looking. Maybe I should move on. Better luck for me next time I hope

[TallAnon]

Yeah, like I said, next step is his. If he doesn't make a move, that's that.

[anonbrunette99]

Well plenty more fish in the sea. Maybe this one I wasn’t supposed to catch

[anonbrunette99]

I guess time will tell

[TallAnon]

We can put out the best bait, but we can't force the fish to bite. Good luck 😊

[anonbrunette99]

Is it okay to get caught looking/smiling at him a few more times intentionally or will he think what’s this weird girl doing or that it’s not worth the effort because it’s all non verbal

[TallAnon]

At that point, who cares what he thinks? 😁 If he likes you, he'll think it's funny. If he doesn't like you, random stranger, who cares what he thinks? 😜