Didn’t reply 3 weeks ago, is that it?

[Anonymous]

I met a guy about 2 years ago and dated briefly on and off but nothing really came of it but remained friends. I trusted him and opened up to him about my past and things I had been through. I recently moved to another area and didn’t know anyone so would reach out to him just for someone to talk to which to begin with seemed fine. I last spoke to him 3 weeks ago and he didn’t reply. Am I right in thinking our friendship is over?

I don’t want to message him because I got the feeling he was trying to phase me out. I’m hoping by staying quiet he might reach out again.

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Thanks for your replies. I thought that was the case

[PrettyPriya]

Sounds like he has moved on from whatever type of relationship you had, be it a friendship or whatever. Probably not for any other reason than you two just grew apart from not talking. Doesn't sound like by your details he has any reason to be upset or anything.

I would just move on. I know being new to an area is hard at first, but you will meet people. I always suggest to those looking to meet people to try and find a local club or activity group that interests you.

There you will meet people that share the same interest and likely will be a good fit to make friends and such. Plus, you get to be a part of a club or group that does something that you enjoy.

As for this guy, I would say after 3 weeks just to move on as that is pretty much what he has done. Doesn't sound like there is much there.

[PrettyPriya]

Ref update: No problem and good luck with your recent move!

[PrettyPriya]

Thank you for the MHO 🙂

[Guy13]

It seems like he has no interest in being around you.

[Wise4myage]

Move on and don't bother messaging him again.

[DoctorSex]

He has someone else presently.

Kind regards,

DoctorSex

[Amy10223]

DoctorSex, I left you a message (long, sorry) and I hope you are able to answer.

[boggboss]

Why would he reach out again by you staying quiet

[Asker]

I meant I wasn’t going to initiate conversation but wondered if he’d check in and see how I was getting on. I got the impression he didn’t want to speak anymore and maybe I relied on him to much after the move for support because it would take him all day if not more than a day to respond to my calls or message hence not wanting to try and reach out to him again and make myself look worse.

[boggboss]

But that depends on if your assumption is even true

[Asker]

True

[Mango77]

Sounds like he's ghosting you

[In_Trance]

smh... move on