If guy says hurtful things to a girl is he hurt himself?

[Anonymous]

He said to me pretty harsh things and I’m wondering did I really hurt him or something?

[d3n0939]

could be if it not for a reason. why don't you ask from him about the reason

[Asker]

In June he cut things off with me. We had a argument while texting and he texted that he does’t want to continue to date me. I removed him from my instagram same day. After that I stupidly called him couple days later after I had removed him from instagram. I wanted closure. He brought it up right away in the phone call and said that he had noticed and it was ”drastic”.

He said that he’s looking for his soulmate and a good wife and that he doesn’t want to waste time. He said we are on different wavelenghts and don’t understand each other. He also said that when we started to talk he was looking for a wife and wanted to ”try” me wether I’m the right person.

he could’ve just said he’s not interested anymore. Why say all that….

[d3n0939]

He is not interested in you, I'm sorry

[Asker]

Why has he so harsh though? Because he’s hurt himself?

[d3n0939]

he might be feeling disappointed. As he might invest his emotions for you

[Asker]

So he had feelings for me?

[d3n0939]

I guess

[Asker]

If guy didn’t have feelings would he be so harsh and try to cause emotional pain to me?

[duttyjamagyal]

I don't know we need context

[Asker]

In June he cut things off with me. We had a argument while texting and he texted that he does’t want to continue to date me. I removed him from my instagram same day. After that I stupidly called him couple days later after I had removed him from instagram. I wanted closure. He brought it up right away in the phone call and said that he had noticed and it was ”drastic”.

He said that he’s looking for his soulmate and a good wife and that he doesn’t want to waste time. He said we are on different wavelenghts and don’t understand each other. He also said that when we started to talk he was looking for a wife and wanted to ”try” me wether I’m the right person.

he could’ve just said he’s not interested anymore. Why say all that….