Questions for the girls and guys?

[Anonymous]

Hey I heard of relationship truma actually about a couple years learn how to deal with it myself.. but enough of just me. So my boyfriend and I are going slow we wanna fall in love 🥰 we got the same major goals like what we want in life our separate goals like our career we support each other. He's hot a lot n cold sometimes. He's been and crazy truma and low self reflection he don't see what I see how can u be the best girlfriend? With this I don't wanna push him out but I want him know I'm here. I'm going with the flow of us with true emotions and honestly. His ex passed maybe 2 or 3 years ago I can tell he loved her. But due to this I felt He's afraid for all of reasons. ANY advice GUYS? / GIRLS you go though this any help?

[WhitneySnow]

Just tell him you love him and you’re there for him if he wants to talk, but don’t pressure him

[Asker]

I'm trying it's slow and I'm really trying not to be impatient 🙃 🙂 because when he lost his ex in a accident I've lost mine because he was a narcissist so 😔 we both kind been crazy he's my first love and truthful I learn to love myself though my truma but he still hurt I feel like because he still have they're pictures hung up

[WhitneySnow]

He probably still has feelings for her

[Nahid1707]

it is good you don’t want to push him too much