His not talking to me anymore, should I block him?

[Anonymous]

So I’ve been seeing this guy a lot for the last two months and we’ve been talking pretty often but lately the messages have become less frequent and we haven’t spoken in the past week. I know for sure that if I messaged him first, he would definitely reply almost instantly but I don’t want to initiate contact. He used to initiate contact but not anymore.

I’m hurt because I like him but if this is how it’s going to be I’m willing to block him and move on with my life.

[Curiousexy]

Depends on your real motivation behind it... do you block every person that doesn't talk to you for more than a week? I don't think so. Or do you want to block him because you think this will make him chase you? Dont play mind games cause it backfires. Just move on...

[Asker]

I actually do block every guy that doesn’t talk to me for some time especially if he wasn’t like that at the start.

[Curiousexy]

Ok.. as long as it's not with the intentions to play mind games and get his attention, if it makes you feel better and get over it faster, do what's best for you. Xx

[KaiidiraX]

If he isn't talking to you anymore it seems like it almost doesn't matter if you block or not right? Do what fewls right to you girl

[FilmGuy93]

Why are so many women like this?

RELATIONSHIPS REQUIRE BOTH PEOPLE TO PUT IN EFFORT.

He's not "not talking to you anymore." He's living his life. Sometimes that means you have to participate.

[spartan55]

Yeah, he got tired of iniating contact, and now you are too stubborn to do it. Then if course you will blame it all on him somehow. You have zero self awareness, maybe negative...🙄. Smh

[DavidRaul]

No need to block. Just move on and get it over with. People loose interest over time and dating sucks

[Staximus]

How often did you "initiate contact" before he stopped "initiating contact"?

[Jenny-Marie]

Why block him? Social media is not the b and end all.

[Dojo1212]

don't block him just give him time he's either busy or doesn't want to be hurt anymore