My boyfriend says if I’m not there to give him head when needed, he’ll find someone else to do it. is this a red flag?

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rtj1211 · Accepted Answer

What he's saying is he loves receiving head and the right kind of girl friend for him will love giving it too.

I would just see it as a test of your compatibility and not to judge either yourself or him if it turns out that you aren't sexually compatible right now...

Fireguy17 · Accepted Answer

Ya, kick his sorry ass to the curb. Find someone that will treat you better and respect you as a person.

DubiousIntentions · Accepted Answer

Wow, someone feels obsessively entitled. And here I assumed a girl had the option to say no. Seems to me he is trying to put his possible cheating all on you. This guy has a red flag as big as the Red Sea. Maybe it's time to reassess your relationship.

Jooying · Accepted Answer

Then let him to find someone who will. You deserve better guy.

Anonymous · Answer

I could understand if you aren’t giving him BlowJob’s at all and he is mostly doing all the loving. I used to have a girlfriend who didn’t like giving blowjobs and she also wasn’t good at them. It was low effort too. So at that point I can imagine why he would say that. But most likely he would cheat on you even if u gave him BlowJob’s. Not sure.

lightbulb27 · Answer

maybe he could drive his car over your neck as well.  can you say... selfish... disrespectful... a-hole? slam the door and don't look back

DoctorSex · Answer

Crude, but no different to how most of us think. But yes, very crude way of putting it. Kind regards, DoctorSex

Jenny-Marie · Answer

He is A and B. No man or woman has the right to pressure you to perform a sexual act. It just shows a lack of respect. He isn't worth it.

spartan55 · Answer

No, it actually means you made a great choice, he sounds like a great guy! 🙄

Anonymous · Answer

He just says what all of us are thinking. If a person is unsatisfied... THEY LEAVE. Right?  So no he isn't a red flag he just says what everyone actually does. Fucking hypocrites.

Makeushiver · Answer

I would certainly think so. I would insist on getting head in return or it will be a red flag

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, he doesn't see you as a person. Best to find someone who does.

mymommyhateame · Answer

DROP HIS ASS RIGHT NOW HE IS SO USELESS LIKE IS HE FR BE FUCKIN FR RIGHT NOW DUMP HIM NOW ON LIVE CAM WITH ALL HIS BFFS

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

A huge red flag! Run!

TroyDT · Answer

He views you as a piece of meat. Dump him.

userxvi · Answer

Find new boyfriend

Anonymous · Answer

take a butchers knife and chop his dick off

Anonymous · Answer

so he is always pushing you down there?

CloudMassacre · Answer

Humongous Red Flag

jimmy2 · Answer

Bye asshole

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