I have given up I just feel stuck HELP?

[FlameZee78]

Just so you all know I am still getting the calls off private number and now I’m worried about my own safety it’s at an point where the person made it very clear that he will get what he wants as that is what his word were…. I have asked my mate if she gave my number and she denied it saying she’d ask for my permission first.

The caller on the end never tried to approach me back 4 years ago and he never spoke to any of my friends as they said they never spoke to anyone like that…. What else yeah he knows the name I go by so he calls me Zee he knows this and I have never seen nor spoken to this guy till Halloween day I dunno what to do no more I can’t think of anyone and this is worrying me obviously nothing physical has been done yet but it has taken him 4 years just to make a call.

[DryGermanGuy]

Take a male person (older brother, father, uncle...) with you to the police station and have them *insist* to take a report for harassment, stalking and threats. Even just to start an initial paper trail. Write down the case number. Talk to the phone company for the requirements to get a call tracing device. Ask to have a female officer present. Check the specific anti-stalker laws. Find a lawyer familiar with stalking/phone harassment cases, as he will be able to put more pressure on the police and phone company.

[FlameZee78]

That all sounds like a great idea but it’s just a long process I mean I got a new job now abs I don’t want them involved in it meaning I don’t want the stalker to follow me their etc he knew where I last worked

[Brando10222]

Call the cops. And maybe even change your phone number

[FlameZee78]

The cops are useless in the uk I had this similar thing happen to me the secound my family went away abroad and I was home alone id wake up to the sound of my front door getting broken into….. when I called the police they just said it’s an very old door which can break with a slight push yet they seen someone was trying to kick it open and could see someone breaking the letter box etc they still did nothing to investigate it

[ConfusedGirl100]

Report it to the police and try not to answer any numbers you don't know

[FlameZee78]

I have tried that I had a similar thing happen to me years a good I got a call exactly like this just once and even than when I was home alone I woke up to sounds of my house getting broken into
Reported it to the police who came to check it out and basically said it’s an old door and told me it’s nothing else and left can’t trust them

[ConfusedGirl100]

Wow what scummy police to do nothing. I'm so sorry you are going through what you are

[Luckycharms12]

Someone messing wouldn't worry about it

[FlameZee78]

We all thought that but you saying don’t worry about it dosnt help
Me

[Luckycharms12]

Nope but really have to think why would someone hurt you have to have done something terrible. More than likely an ex or someone jealous pranking you

[FlameZee78]

I have no friends to be jealous of me and my ex’s have gfs so it’s not them at all

[Luckycharms12]

Why would someone randomly target you

[FlameZee78]

Because it does happen it’s called stalking when someone is attracted to that one person they don’t specifically target them they just get obsessed with them that’s all