He asked me if I am seeing someone and then said he misses my boobs and he " feels I won' t sleep with nobody else" . Why?

[Deimy]

Then 2 days after he denied that he wants me and said that he really cares about me

[SnowedIn]

He's either thoughtless, cruel, heartless, or desperately confused. If you can, get away. He's going to hurt you whether deliberately or by being thoughtless.

[Deimy]

Actually he slept with me 2 times and disrespected me and now he is saying that he knows the damaging he caused and he goes to psychologist , he said hehurted me

[oh_k789]

He feels he won't "sleep" with anybody else, or (that) you won't sleep with anybody else?

[Deimy]

That I won' t sleep with anybody else I saw him on Bumble again but then he shew me that he deleted his profile and was angry saying that he does not " own me a shit" he wants to talk friendly with me as I suggest to talk face to face but he is busy with studies. Still I asked why he wants to know if I am dating or sleeping with others and he said " curious"

[oh_k789]

Meaning he expect you will not find anyone who likes you? Or what else?

[Deimy]

He said I am not that horny

[oh_k789]

How is that his business, your future sex life with other people?

[Deimy]

He was my first in sex, then he left me after 2 times having sex and was not honest with me now he came back saying that he goes to psychologist and he realized the damage he did to me. I don' t know why he is acting this way

[oh_k789]

You are very young; he is very young.
It could have been his first time as well.
Or close to his first time.

You both have no experience and are confused.

I would focus on the "he was not honest with me" and/or "he disrespected me", because fair chance is there that's something not objective, but looking like that to your eyes.
What guilt was there in his actual, factual, actions to you?

[Deimy]

That he can' t plan his time properly and is always busy with his medicine studies and promised dates with me and relationship , also he said that I have too many red flags when he is the problem. He only had one girlfriend for 7 years he is 25 years old but broke up 2 years ago after that he only had sex with one woman now with me and just after my first time he started to talk how he see the future with me , he wants my babies. I remember when we were having sex for the first time he looked into my eyes and said" I am happy we did it" and that sex was amazing. Now he say he miss talking with me

[oh_k789]

Well, based on what you say: your choice his between forgetting him now by your choice, or later after more suffering.

[Deimy]

You think he wants to use me again for sex?

[oh_k789]

It's not that basic.
The point is you are both confused and quite clueless as to what you want, need, and how to run a relationship.
And the foundations for something capable of turning into a healthy relationships clearly aren't there, not in him for himself, but in the dynamics between the two of you.

You aren't a match, in short.

[Wish4UrB00ty]

How long has it been?… obviously he does really want you still? You should block him out.

[Deimy]

What do you mean : how long was that?

[Wish4UrB00ty]

I meant like how long have you been broken up?

[Deimy]

We were in situationship like for 2 months and then we broke up it is been 3 weeks

[Wish4UrB00ty]

Lol! Oh see that makes more sense! You need to cut him off.

[Deimy]

Why you think so

[Wish4UrB00ty]

Well unless you are still interested in him or really enjoy hearing him wine about how much he misses your breasts…. I have a feeling he won’t stop asking until you cut him off or you give him what he wants.

[Andres77]

Are you still on about this guy?

Move on! If he really loved you you wouldn’t be in here every day asking advice. His intentions would be clear.

You’re wasting your time with him.

[SlothySlob]

He wanna smash.

[Deimy]

What does that mean

[SlothySlob]

He just wants to fuck.