How do I ( 24F ) interpret his ( 26M) behaviour?

[Anonymous]

So, I go to meet a situationship of mine. At this point I know he likes me and finds me incredibly attractive and I like him too. So we were watching tv series and cuddling for a while and he tries to touch me and hold me more intimately but I wasn't sure where I stood. I just laughed it off, then I felt sleepy and fell asleep on his chest and kinda open my eyes to him seamingly pleasuring himself... He notices I woke up and gives me a gentle kiss on the head and hugs me. I actually don't know how to interpret this. Because this happened on our 2-3 date. Should I be offended? I'm not understanding, I didn't feel anything at that moment, i did stay there for few more hours after that and met him couple of times post that. Just in retrospect I don't know how to make of it?

[SueShe]

If you don't know how to interpret the fact that a man manipulates your body over you being asleep, then you really have a problem.

It is obvious that he sees you simply as an object for this personal satisfaction but that he does not consider you enough to have a minimum of dignity or self-respect.

I think that you should realize that you will never be more than an object for his sexual deviances. Misusing a person that is asleep is only a sign that this man is a sexual creep and will go to great lengths to satisfy himself at your costs.

Time to make a move and to sever this toxic relation with a potential sexual criminal. If you value your security, you would have done it the second you noticed he was abusing you.

[WaterIsland]

Sounds like he’s moving MUCH faster than you. Only you can determine if your comfortable with that tho. I’d personally never do those things with someone I wasn’t in an exclusive relationship with.

[Guy13]

Sounds like you are his snuggle friend without benefit.

[Iron_Man]

How long have you known him?

[Asker]

Couple of months

[Iron_Man]

I can’t believe that guys doing that and you hardly know how

[Iron_Man]

Excuse me, I mean know him. That was voice, command error

[In_Trance]

Ridiculous