What does friends with benefits mean?

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and r u into it?

juliammm · Accepted Answer

To me, it is someone whom with you can have normal friendship relationships. But you also have the benefits of a casual or regular sexual relationship.

Also, I think if the relationship is only about sex, then it is best to say "sex friend. But I am not sure there is a real difference.

I love this type of relationship. Most of my friends, boys and girls, are "friends with benefits"

Aerissa_Jade · Accepted Answer

A friend that you can hang out with, go to movies, dinners and do other things as friends but occasionally have sex for fun too.

Don't mix up friends with benefits's with Fuck buddies, a fuck buddy is someone you just say I want some and you get together for sex with no relationship or strings attached.

Hence friends means you do stuff as friends too, not just sex.

Lliam · Answer

That's a really good question. I kinda wondered myself. I never heard the term until I started using GAG.

I only heard of girlfriends-boyfriends when I was growing up. You were attracted to each other, infatuated, and proud to be be seen with them. It didn't mean that it was going to be a permanent relationship that led to marriage. We were young.

There were normal girls who weren't up tight about sex and would hook up with desirable guys in their search of a boyfriend. People weren't so up tight in those days and nobody worried about body counts or labeled sexually active girls.

Of course there were a few skanks who had reputations for being willing to fuck anyone. And desperate guys would just hook up with them if they were horny.

I think friends with benefits might mean having someone you can fuck whenever the mood suits you. But you don't have to care about them one way or the other. And you can hook up with others in the meantime if you want to because there is no commitment.

I guess it's a way of getting sex while you are seeking a steady partner or if you aren't interested in a relationship at all.

I did have one girlfriend for a couple of years in my early twenties. She was sweet and pretty and we had a really good time while we were going together. After while, though, I wasn't interested in her anymore but she still wanted to be my girlfriend. I didn't want to hurt her feelings, but I even told her that she could find another boyfriend if she wanted to.

I quit hanging out with her. But when I got horny I would knock on her window at night and she would eagerly come out and we would have sex in my car. Afterwards, I would leave. Both of us still lived with our parents at the time.

I felt like a piece of shit for doing that. I was just using her as a cum dump. But my hormones got the best of me.

I guess she was like a "friend with benefits" at that point. We just didn't have that term in the1970s.

4ngelic · Answer

you hangout together but you also fuck (without dating) or you just see each other only for sex and dont talk outside of that really

tinydiva1991 · Answer

It means someone who is there to relief your sexual tension when needed.

LiamJHayden · Answer

People who F without "dating." I find it personally repulsive, but others can do what they want.

magiusX26 · Answer

typically a friendship where you also have sex with each other

Fuentes · Answer

Something to fk n then dump over n over til you bored of her

In_Trance · Answer

Why would you ask if someone is into it if you don't even know what it means?

Rides_Big_Guys · Answer

friends with benefits is for guys with their bros.

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