My closest friend is too comfortable with me lol and is usually shirtless when he changes clothes in his house when i visit him but before he changes clothes, he actually talks while being shirtless. I find it highly unusual but is this normal?
Are you attractive? Speaking personally, if I can find a reason to have my shirt off around a cute girl then I'm going to take it.
You should never frame your mind, in the sense that friendships with men, are ever truly platonic. Men don't think that way. We can have a friend of 20 years whose attractive, and it's always an option. So be aware of that.
But just to confuse you, is he just comfortable or is he showing off, could be both or just one really. At the very least he is aware and his actions; it's not done absently.
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Not sure if you have some gebder rethoric going on here. I have no issue at all being shirtless around female friends, family, so on. It was never that sexualized and I simply do not imagine they're looking that way.
If any of my friends do steal a few glances? Good for them. Might tease them about it.
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Oh I thought you meant talking to her while SHE'S shirtless, and I got really excited and I was gonna answer "YES"
As for ME being shirtless, it depends what SHE'S comfortable with, but I find it weird to just take your shirt off for no reason.
First,. i have nothing to show off.
Second, except for my wife, i find it disrespectful to be shirtless, even a sleeveless t-shirt or a wife beater in front of anyone else, including my kids.
I only find it acceptable on the beach or the pool.No, I would not do that and it is not normal as well. However, as for him I think he trusts you and is comfortable around you so he does not mind.
Hoe much clothes I am wearing (or not wearing) has very little effect on the level of comfort I would have talking to you.
I go shirtless as often as physically possible. I'm a human fucking heater and I hate wearing excessive clothing unless it's cold!
I'm confused.. Are you talking about a shirtless male or a shirtless female?
I live at the beach so it is kind of normal.
As long as she attractive and im shagging her at the same time
so you're dealing with a narcissistic egomaniac who thinks by himself going shirtless it'll turn you on which is pathetic and a cheap act of desperation and immaturity
I don't see what the problem is.
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