TRUE or FALSE: If a guy is willing to take it slow with a girl it's because he is playing the field?

[DermalPunch]

He is willing to go slowly because he is playing the field

He likes the girl

Both

[Legendarylegacy13]

I say both because during most dating you looking to see if you are interested in a person or if a relationship could work. Most females would say that if you are paying attention to a female she should have your full attention. But to me the longer you take it slow the more time you waste. So to me it's not about the dating part are the full attention part its about the commitment part and at what point is it that she should have your only attention as a female. So to me during dating it has to reach a certain point to not consider or cater to other femals as far as flirting or relationships. And taking it slow with me I would have to be in a good sexual place. Like as far as not needing sex. Are just wanting sex.

[Jamie05rhs]

I agree with you. But I'm a virgin, so I'm used to not having sex. So I literally don't care. Lol

[Jamie05rhs]

False. Only partially true. Because sometimes we play the field BECAUSE it takes so long for relationships to develop. So you don't want to invest 100% in one woman for a whole year if she's just going to flake at the end of it.

HOWEVER, if a woman indicates to me that she's actually SERIOUS about me and she's seriously interested in pursuing a relationship -- not playing games -- then I will give her 100% of my attention.

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO!

[DermalPunch]

For sure

[Summeroflove]

This really depends on who you’re dealing with. If someone will dump you for not having sex. Let them go.

If they just cross boundaries after you said you’re not ready for something yet. Maybe they’re not meant

[lightbulb27]

not convinced that's true or false, various answers.

[DermalPunch]

Did you vote both?

[Legendarylegacy13]

That's exactly why I voted both.

[lightbulb27]

I think I voted he likes the girl... which is true.

[DermalPunch]

@lightbulb27 @Legendarylegacy13 guy starts dropping l bombs two days after admitting he likes you. Run or tell him to slow down.

[lightbulb27]

"love bombs"? that's a bit fast, as a teen it be normal, at 38, he's too needy, at 60 that's amazing, at 90... loves everyone.

[DermalPunch]

Ah yeah the guy is young

[Stevefiveo]

It depends on the guy. If he is player, then he is playing the field. If he is sincere, then he is being genuine.

[DermalPunch]

How to know is the big challenge!

[Stevefiveo]

Yeah, most guys can tell. If you have a trusted guy friend that you ask them that would help.

[LiamJHayden]

Depends. Some might be playing the field. Some might be on the shy side. Some might reserve intimacy for someone special.

[Kathie93]

You know it could be but he probably wants it to last and not get crazy

[NathanDavis]

depends... on how insecure they are

[DermalPunch]

LOL. OK.

[NathanDavis]

when we are insecure... facts or truth might not matter much

we might still believe that people are playing us... and we might not get ourselves to be able to trust someone

[DermalPunch]

we might still believe that people are playing us... and we might not get ourselves to be able to trust someone.

I am positive I have PPD. It's a constant battle.

my.clevelandclinic.org/.../9784-paranoid-personality-disorder

[NathanDavis]

have you tried therapy, consulting with a professional for it?

[DermalPunch]

I'm an artist so it's fine.

[NathanDavis]

that's the (tortured) spirit... I guess

[DermalPunch]

Oh it is!

[NathanDavis]

what's your craft? if you don't mind me asking...

[DermalPunch]

Canvasses.

[NathanDavis]

nice... fine motor skills on point

[DermalPunch]

Thanks, man!

[Andres77]

Who tf made up this bs?

[DermalPunch]

Guys who treat women as easy for making the first move. It's a thing.

[DermalPunch]

Oh damn getting g my polls crossed. Lol

[Andres77]

But why would he take it slow if he just intended to take advantage? Seems like not an efficient use of time.
Unless he was very sadistic

[DermalPunch]

Oh he WAAAASS!!!

[Andres77]

Ok, for that I'm very sorry.
Yes, there are some knuckleheads out there like this. The poll is too generalized and not normal behavior. This is a particular situation with one guy that sought your pain.

[DermalPunch]

No this poll was just new. I was referring something else and I am so confused now.

[DermalPunch]

Oh because he can keep himself occupied with his other girls. He has many irons in the fire.

[Juxtapose]

That really depends on the guy.

[Jennz6]

I’m not really sure?

[DermalPunch]

So far all the guys picked he likes her. Is it true or are they all in on the guy-code conspiracy? We will never know 👽

[Jennz6]

I don’t know either

[WanderingLoveWizard]

@DermalPunch Don't mention the conspiracy again. That's none of your business 🤫

[DermalPunch]

@WanderingLoveWizard I won't be armed to the teeth when your assasins come for me in the night. Everyone will know it wasn't suicide.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

@DermalPunch I already reported you to the UMA (Underground Men's Association). What happens next is out of my control. They don't take kindly to whistleblowers

[DermalPunch]

@WanderingLoveWizard I am prepared to be martyred.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

@DermalPunch 😂😂 You're fun

[DermalPunch]

@WanderingLoveWizard oh indeed! Only child so I had to entertain myself.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

False.

[Neufd]

Perhaps

[eagle1951]

he llikes her