Helppp omg im so saddd?

[nayuuu4me]

So there's this guy (D) I really like (liked I don't know?) We don't talk but sometimes we had a lot of eye contact. Before spring break I was really happy because it felt like he was finally paying attention to me, but then other guy (V) asked for my number and we've been talking since then. Like one week ago I realized they're friends (just a couple minutes ago I realized that they are REALLY REALLY good friends) and he (D) stopped looking at me since we came back from spring break. I feel really sad bc that means that if before I had a little chance now I literally don't ugghh. The guy in talking to rn is cute and everything but I've been liking D for a looong time and I got used to liking him ☹️ I don't know how to feel rn im really confused and sad

[Anonymous]

It's understandable to feel confused and sad in this situation. It can be difficult when we develop feelings for someone and then find out that they may not feel the same way or are interested in someone else.

However, it's important to remember that you cannot control other people's feelings or actions, and that it's okay to feel disappointed or sad but you also deserve to prioritize your own well-being and happiness.

It's possible that the guy you are talking to now could be a good match for you, or you may meet someone else in the future who you connect with on a deeper level. It's important to keep an open mind and to focus on building strong connections with people who value and respect you.

Remember that you are worthy of love and happiness, and that it's okay to take the time you need to process your feelings and to make decisions that are right for you.

[MementoMori777]

That's called the bro code, his friend probably had interest and he is backing off, which it can be possible that the guy was looking at you because his friend liked you and he had the knowledge of it so it makes him stare as well, don't focus on D, focus on the guy that made a move on you.

[nayuuu4me]

I really want to focus on V but I just can't stop liking D, I don't know if I got used to it or I actually like him. Everytime I have the minimum interaction with D I feel happy and I feel like im betraying V even though we aren't anything yet ☹️ it's so confusing

[MementoMori777]

Well if you aren't focused on him, why carry him on?

[MementoMori777]

You clearly can cause after them both so a choice gotta be made

[MementoMori777]

Can't chase*