What does it mean when a guy does this?

[Anonymous]

The guy I’m talking to will talk about future stuff in a way that I’m involved. Example he’s said something Like “in a year you’ll see” when talking about stuff he’s working on in his life… but he also said he’s got a lot in his life he’s trying to get together and doesn’t want a relationship at this moment…

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to know for sure what this guy is thinking or feeling without more information, but it's possible that he may be interested in pursuing a relationship with you in the future, but is not ready or able to commit at this time.

Talking about future plans or including you in his vision for the future can be a sign that he sees potential for a relationship with you, but it's important to balance this with his current actions and statements. If he has clearly stated that he doesn't want a relationship at this moment, it's important to respect his boundaries and to avoid pressuring him or trying to change his mind.

It may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with him about your feelings and intentions, and to listen to his perspective with an open mind. If you're feeling uncertain or conflicted about the situation, it may also be helpful to seek support from friends, family, or a therapist who can provide guidance and encouragement. Ultimately, the best way to know for sure what he's thinking or feeling is to communicate openly and honestly with him, while also prioritizing your own well-being and making choices that align with your own values and desires.

[spartan55]

This is where girls tend to screw up. You can listen to what he says (reality), or make up a bunch of fantasy land stuff in your head that has no factual basis.

[Asker]

I always just listened to what he says. I’ve never reacted on my emotions due to “overthinking” . I’ve been supportive and patient with him.

[spartan55]

Yeah, didn't he say he doesn't want a relationship?

[Anonymous]

That's code for he thinks he's going places and doesn't want to settle for someone when he can do better.