Staring at Butt?

[Anonymous]

There’s this guy at work who constantly stares at my butt and even when I turn around he keeps looking at it I feel there’s a difference between looking at a girls butt for a few seconds over staring at it for awhile and zoning out what does this indicate? What is he thinking…. also he hasn’t made a move or anything

[RingOfFire]

This is what guys do. It's just a natural behavior. It's genetic. They like to look and fantasize. I'm sure it is uncomfortable to be on your side of it, but it probably won't be the only time it will happen. And don't assume that just because he is staring it has anything to do with his wanting a relationship with you. It's just an animal instinct. Some guys are better at controlling it than others.

[Anonymous]

It means he wants to hit that ass. Must be a nice one if he’s coming out on it. It’s all sexual thoughts. Yes there’s a difference between catching a glance here and there but in this case he sounds obsessed w your ass.

[Asker]

Yeah it seems like he is obsessed I’ve never experienced a guy being so indirect with staring at my ass

[Opinion Owner]

So it bothers you or it doesn’t bother you?

[FilmGuy93]

He’s just checking your butt out

[BoopBoopBeep]

If your butt is so mesmerizing that he's zoning out perhaps he is too nervous to talk to you?

[Asker]

Yeah probably

[spartan55]

How do you know he is always looking at your ass? Eyes in the back of your head?

[Asker]

I’ll turn and look at him to say something or I’ll feel him staring at me and I end up seeing him looking

[spartan55]

Mmm hmmmm

[Asker]

It’s true it catches me off guard

[spartan55]

Understandable.

[MementoMori777]

It most likely indicates that he is securing your butt heavy

[MementoMori777]

Sexualizing*

[Asker]

He’s sexualizing my butt okay! And hasn’t made a sexual move

[MementoMori777]

I guess not

[chicosuave]

Do you want him to make a sexual move like slap or touch it?

[Pterodon]

He’s wondering what your ass looks like, smells like and tastes like and he wants to bury his face in it.

[Pterodon]

That’s the truth. Will you let him find out? Why hasn’t he made a move? If a guy came up and told you exactly that about your ass how would you react?

[Pterodon]

You claim you want total honesty

[Asker]

I would like him to be straightforward I’ll like bold men

[Asker]

Interesting!

[Pterodon]

Then tell him you want his most honest thoughts without judgment from you

[Pterodon]

Tell him ou demand a man to be bold

[Asker]

So while he’s staring ask him what are you thinking about?

[Pterodon]

Exactly and you be bold and tell him you want the honest truth and that you will not be offended and appreciate boldness and honesty. That those attributes turn you on

[Pterodon]

He will either be brave and meet your challenge and you two can have a killer relationship unafraid of being totally honest together or he’ll wimp out which means he isn’t brave enough for you

[Asker]

Okay I will

[Pterodon]

Are you prepared to let him worship your ass the way he wants no matter how weird to you if he meets your challenge?

[Asker]

Yeah I like rough sex and I’m very kinky and submissive why not

[Pterodon]

Then challenge him

[chicosuave]

Can you show a picture of your big butt? I wanna see how big it is. Invite him to a nightclub and dance a lot of dirty dancing with him or rub your butt on his dick. He will get that hint

[NYlatefun]

It seems that you enjoy him watching, yes? Do you have a nice butt?

[Asker]

Yes I do and yes it’s always been big but since I’ve been working out it’s more toned and bubbly and jiggly

[NYlatefun]

Well, there’s a substantial reason for him to stare! Good for you! Do you like the guy?

[Asker]

Yeah but constantly without a move is confusing and yes I do he’s very attractive and has a nice body

[NYlatefun]

Do you guys chat at all? Or he just stares?

[Asker]

Other than my ass He also stares at me doing my work and I’ll look at him and we’ll make direct eye contact and then I look away

[Asker]

We do talk sometimes we even workout sometimes he’s spotted me for squats and even then he would stare he even checks out my legs

[NYlatefun]

Maybe he’s shy and you’ll have to make a move first

[Asker]

…Like make a first move how I feel like I’m an approachable person I haven’t really thought about his pov of me

[NYlatefun]

If he stares at your body and you guys chat and he hasn’t made a move he may be afraid of doing it for some reason.

[Asker]

Okay that makes sense

[NYlatefun]

You seem too hot to be waiting for that guy tbh!

[Asker]

That’s true I’m not really waiting for him I’m mostly focused on myself but I would like for him to make some sort of move instead of being all shy

[NYlatefun]

Lol makes sense! So what’s hot about him? Body? Face? Package?

[Asker]

He’s all around hot face, body, package, personality but is a shy I’ve only seen his print because when I’m sitting down he’ll stand close right in front of me

[NYlatefun]

Lol he’s shy but not to show his print. Although sometimes it’s very hard to hide it. So who knows.

[Asker]

Yeah he also does the thing where he lifts his shirt up by stretching or he’ll just lift his shirt up infront of me to show off his abs

[NYlatefun]

That’s so weird, he’s showing off all the time. Yet he doesn’t make a move. You should ignore him and see what he does next. Do you have fwbs?

[Asker]

Righttt and okay I’ll do that tomorrow and update you also no but I need some I’ve been celibate for awhile now focusing on myself

[NYlatefun]

Oh! That sounds like a waste! How long you’ve been celibate for?

[Asker]

Since October when my ex and I broke up

[Asker]

He ignored me back for a little bit by facing his back away from me then he asked if I could cover a shift then we started talking with other coworkers and he bought me food for covering the shift

[Asker]

I caught him staring again from a distance twice he has no shame in it tbh

[NYlatefun]

Since October? 😱 you need to get some, girl!

[NYlatefun]

So weird he just stares. Quite an ass you have, I’m sure!!

[Asker]

Immmm working on it😩 nobody approaches me I do t understand

[Asker]

Yeah it’s very nice I worked hard on it

[NYlatefun]

Haha so sorry! It’ll happen, no worries, enjoy the lack of complications sex brings!

[NYlatefun]

Very nice! Nothing beats a sexy butt!

[Asker]

Facts

[Asker]

I’m happy fr

[NYlatefun]

Follow me if you ever want to chat 😉

[Asker]

Update I just had sex with my ex other dude is taking toooo long

[NYlatefun]

Nice! Was it good?

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Maybe he enjoys what he sees but is shy or afraid to ask thinking you'd say no or that you have a boyfriend.

[Asker]

Probably it’s so sad tho cause I’m single as helll with no options but I look like a girl who has a boyfriend

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Talk to him and drop hints that let him know you're single w/o a boyfriend. Tell him about a place you want to go to but don't because you don't want to go alone.

[Asker]

He knows I’m not the type to be codependent

[noohair]

Men do this caveman thing of evaluating every woman for potential breeding. It is almost unconscious behavior.

[Anonymous]

Rub your butt on his dick n give him hint that you want to get fucked by him...

He is shy.. you have to take move.

[Asker]

How can I discreetly do that

[Opinion Owner]

Like when you both are in lift
Do that...
When you talk to him talk with very closeness

[Asker]

Ohhh that’s smart

[Opinion Owner]

Yup i do with girls if i have to give her hint 😘

[Asker]

How do they respond?

[Opinion Owner]

It's long story
Pm me i can't write this openly

[Asker]

Follow me back!!

[Danny_dan92]

He wants to fuck

[Asker]

Well he needs to make a move like he wants to fuck honestly

[Danny_dan92]

Just pull your pants down in front of him. And flash him your pussy.

You’re welcome

[Asker]

At work lmfaooo where there are cameras? Sure

[Danny_dan92]

Just do it. Lol

[Asker]

Yeah I’ll go for it see where it takes me lol

[Danny_dan92]

You’ll lose your job the next day but your pussy will get filled that instance

[Asker]

I rather keep my job and keep my streak of no trouble with the law

[Danny_dan92]

Well then there’s your answer lol

[chicosuave]

You won't get in trouble. Your a girl

[Asker]

@chicosuave yeah your right I’m sexy enough to get away with it

[Danny_dan92]

The whole block will wanna fuck lmfao

[Asker]

Frrr tho

[Guardian45]

Probably he wants to fuck you doggy.

[Asker]

Yea and I’m down

[Guardian45]

What will you do?

[Asker]

Fuck him reverse Cowgirl

[Guardian45]

Niiice! Are you going to do him in the office then?