Guys, When a guy sends a shirtless ab pic what does he expect in return?

[CAPLOVE]

I have received many shirtless pics in my life some on the first day, some in the first week, and some later on. When a guy sends me a shirtless pic with his abs showing what does he expect in return? Does he want a bikini pic, a bra pick, nudes (which he is not getting)?

[SnowedIn]

What he expects is irrelevant. Seriously. It's NOT transactional unless you (plural you) explicitly agree that it will be transactional.

But, expect? My guess would be a bra pic.

But you "owe" nothing -- especially if it's unsolicited.

[CAPLOVE]

That's a great point. Yeah, I shouldn't give him what he wants unless I want to give it to him.

[SnowedIn]

YES!!!

Gazillion points for the girl with wisdom.

[CAPLOVE]

Haha, thanks

[MementoMori777]

I'm pretty sure he just wants you to drool over them and feed his ego, unless he does expect one in return, unless he asks I don't know if you'll ever really be sure

[CAPLOVE]

Ok, that makes sense. Some I do drool over LOL. but sometimes I'm like you don't have a nice bod so why are you sending me this lol

[MementoMori777]

Lol.

[runnerboy]

You do not owe them a thing.. it was their choice to send it to you. I'm sure you can see tons of 6 pack ab pics on the internet and on porn. Are guys sending you dick pics also?

[CAPLOVE]

That is an amazing point. I'm glad you as a guy agree. Omg yeah, you can. I have seen Tone online LOL. Yes, it makes me feel very uncomfortable. Once a guy sent me a video of him cu*****. I always ghost them after that. For all the girls if you send a guy a pic it is out there forever so be careful.

[runnerboy]

I can't believe a guy sent you that video. That is kinda creepy. Does he think he is gods gift in the penis department? I'm sure he is not or is just insecure. Sorry you have to see those pics. I did reply to your message by the way.

[CAPLOVE]

Ik I was disgusted and scared. Thanks for being sorry. I'm glad that there are good guys out there. Cool, ttys

[runnerboy]

Guys should save that stuff for IRL not unsolicited pics.

[CAPLOVE]

I agree!! I have littery told guys were hanging on in a few you'll get to see me then you don't need to send me pics LOL

[CAPLOVE]

If a guy sends me a pic and I delete it off my phone can other people find out that I have it like colleges or job places? It's kinda something that's been scaring me lol

[runnerboy]

I don't think so

[CAPLOVE]

ok, I'm glad. Does a bra and thong pic count as nudes?

[CAPLOVE]

If were both 16 and he sends me a dick pic and I send him a bra and though pic could I get in trouble for that

[runnerboy]

I don't think so they are not much different than a bikini

[runnerboy]

Just do not have your face in any of the pics.

[CAPLOVE]

Ok, I agree. girls post bikini pics all the time so I feel like it's not that big of a deal. I always send from the neck down so I hope no one can tell it's me

[Summeroflove]

I don’t know. If you don’t want someone sending you something. Feel free to tell them to stop and if they don’t just block

[shades777]

Seeing how a 6 pack isn't all that common if your not impressed he should move on, not sense in wasting time on someone who can't recognize value

[Wise4myage]

He's hoping for the same type of pic or something similar.

[spartan55]

He expects the 'Douchebag of the Year' trophy.

[CAPLOVE]

hahahaha

[mommymommymommy]

He's trying to say he wants to fuck

[CAPLOVE]

wait really? ok, I kinda could see that

[mommymommymommy]

Yeah. When people send those types of photos, they're saying "come over so we can fuck"

[CAPLOVE]

ohhh, good to know

[mommymommymommy]

Of course it's the immature way to go about it, but, you do you, right?

[CAPLOVE]

Do you mean the guys are immature? Yeah I guess you do you even if it's stupid lol

[mommymommymommy]

No, both the girl and the guy, and yeah

[TrillXHippy]

Nothing