Is it true that guys look so much at a woman's fitness?

[mirimis]

It's not the first time men have told me I'm beautiful BUT if I was a few pounds lighter I'd be perfect. Is it really that important?

Sorry for my bad English

[MementoMori777]

they do look at fitness but guys have different perspectives cause beauty is subjective, to those specific people it would and to others you might be perfect now just how some might prefer you bigger, some slimmer, it depends so maybe dont take in this info without thinking of perspective.

[slatyb]

Wow, that's pretty rude. Your English is fine.

[mirimis]

It's the same thing I think too, I would never have the courage to say such a thing to someone

[slatyb]

Where are you meeting these men? I don't know anyone who would say that. It's both a sign of bad manners and stupidity. There's no benefit to anyone from that remark.

[mirimis]

Colleagues

[slatyb]

Wow, that's even worse. At many companies in the US such remarks would be out of bounds and could result in discipline.

[In_Trance]

the importance varies depending on the guy

[Anonymous]

I know I do.