We went to school together and he has no plans on dating me. Me neither. I encouraged him to be on dating apps and dates. Things were going fine. One day he saw my pic with my boyfriend. and casually when I spoke about my boyfriend he said something like ‘you both look bad. Your boyfriend looks bad. You look good on me’. That was totally not welcome. he further took it to another date of mine (after breakup with my boyfriend) and said something like ‘she has no boyfriend, she is doing this to make her look unachieveable’ and discouraged his friend to go on a date with me (we have very few common friend and one was attracted to me. Since we weren’t dating he planned on meeting me and informed the guy. He was initially cool like, yeah dude meet her but when he came to know they actually are coming to meet me he discouraged them).
he gets fucking mad to see me with any guy and gets irked when I talk to someone on phone at night and would question who it was.
So I talked to a couple of friends to know if he is has any issues with me, but all of them including his past dates said he is a cool dude who doesn’t care much and was cool with them dating anyone.
Last day we met on road after years. the first thing he did was he accused me of trying to sleep with others couple of years ago as if he got betrayed by me. his tonality was like getting stabbed.
Dont know his strange behaviour directed to me or if I have tried to mess up anything. This is affecting my dating life. Any help
