He didn’t read my message but active on Instagram?

[pixiepika]

My boyfriend said his work really took his energy lately. We usually text by imess on daily basis, but recently he just reply me mid night after his work when actually his work starts at evening. He didn’t reply or even read me on imess even he viewed my story on Instagram. I am not sure is he avoiding my text or he just haven’t check it because he has 2 phones, one iphone and 1 android. With this behaviour, is he avoiding me or am I just overthinking and being sensitive?

[Anonymous]

Wait you aren't into calling and talking on the phone? Girl you need to get over this, having your only means of communication via texting will cause issues in your relationship because you will be overthinking when he doesn't read your message in a certain timeframe or doesn't respond in a certain time frame.

I can't say if he is cheating or wanting to end things, but I do think you need to work up the courage and confidence to talk on the phone. This and in person is a far better way of communicating

[Emyyyy]

I have had this happen to me b4.
It’s because, talking to someone else. He’s interested in someone else.

What can you do? 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ Nothing… Move On…. Focus on other shit

[Avicenna]

You really need to ask him. There is no way for us to know what he's doing on Insta

[spartan55]

You have a phone, use it to make a CALL. Weird, I know.

[Iron_Man]

Call him

[pixiepika]

We rarely call. Just for urgent

[In_Trance]

Have you called?

[pixiepika]

We rarely call except for urgent as he also not really into it from the start

[In_Trance]

have you called?

[spartan55]

@pixiepika
Ever stop to think that might part of the problem?