Why does he stare at me repeatedly even though he has a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

He seems quite proud to be with her and always posts couple pics with her on insta but stares me down during lectures

[kata19]

Although he has a girlfriend he is attracted to you.

[Asker]

yeah but he doesn't just check me out. he stares for 10 to 20 seconds like he wants to provoke a reaction. i think that is super disrespectul to his girlfriend

[kata19]

You’re absolutely right. Try to avoid him!

[Asker]

has that happened to you too?

[kata19]

The staring part happened to me once but he was a total stranger so I didn’t know much about him. It’s an eternal truth if someone wants something from you seriously you’ll know it. They will smile at you or approach you in a friendly way or their reaction will be clear so you won’t have any doubts.

[Asker]

i dont have any doubts especially since he is rather shy

[kata19]

If he stares you down he doesn’t seem that shy.

[balyai]

That's a "creep"

[Asker]

yeah but why? he stares so hard and turns around when i sit behind him because he wants me to notice it. what does he want? he is in a happy relationship

[balyai]

He wants you and has thought about you sexually as well

[balyai]

In short, he would sleep with you if nobody ever found out about it