We were supposed to go out together but he didn’t message me as he promised. And then I asked why he treated me like this to what he answered what I wrote in the topic. I asked if he doesn’t want to make effort. And he said it’s not the issue. He said after I see him I might not want him that’s his fear. Shall I believe him or not? Why is he saying this?
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After you see him? So did you meet this guy on line and you've never seen him in real life? If that's the case, my guess is any pictures he sent you aren't of him. I'd say probably best to let it go. He knows starting off a relationship with "ah sorry I lied about who I am, but I'm really insecure is a heavy lift. It would be nice if you could see him and reassure him, but you may not be able to. He might be really ugly and even though he may be a wonderful person in every other way, he did try to start a relationship based on a lie. It is not your job to be amature therapist to a guy you just met. Tell him "thank you, please get some help for your self esteem".
Yea we were supposed to meet yesterday but he didn’t reach out and then I said I was disappointed
Wither way he is not putting in effort so his point dont matter
I think you should go ahead and ask him to meet you anyway.
So you don’t think he’s not putting effort just like the other person?
May be he is insecure about something which can only be understand after a meet up.