What can he mean by stuck in reverse?

[Anonymous]

Sometimes my husband listens to moody songs. I get that. He shared videos on Instagram. He listens to radiohead and coldplay a lot. But now a days his captions are a bit sad. His insta bio says "stuck in reverse" from the coldplay song. He shared the lyrics of daydream by radiohead. I know I'm worrying too much. But I can't shake the feeling he might be sad that his first love got divorced from her abusive husband a week after we got married. And yeah I stalked her, she also shares similar nature videos and same lyrics. Both their profiles are private and they don't contact each other. Am I being anxious for no reason? They never dated but he was in love for a long time.

They're both good people. I love him. But am I worried out of the blue?

[Oliverlogan263]

I'd say don't sweat it too much sis. Guys get moody sometimes and listen to sad songs, doesn't always mean something is up.

Could be he's just feeling down in general with work stress or something not even related to her. Social media bios and stuff don't always mean much.

And it's normal to have lingering feelings for an old crush, even if they were never together. Doesn't mean he loves you any less now.

I'd just keep an eye out for other signs something might be wrong in your actual relationship. As long as he's still treating you good mostly, then try not to overthink it too much from small things.

Trust him til he gives you a real reason not to, you know? Don't create problems where there aren't any yet. And if it really bugs you, maybe just talk to him about how you're feeling. But don't accuse, just share and listen to reassure each other. You got this sis!

[exitseven]

I get the stuck in reverse part. Sometimes I get stuck thinking about the past. Just about everyplace I go reminds me of something that happened to me. I don't think you need to worry

[Asker]

I just worry if he regrets not being with her.

[exitseven]

Nah, she married somebody else. If anything he might remember some date they had that was nice