Why does a guy who says he does not like me stalk me still?

[Anonymous]

the guy who blocked me still stalks me. and then said I was stalking him. None of this makes sense. Why would a guy do this?

[Oliverlogan263]

That's a weird situation for sure. Some things that could be going on:

- He might still be interested in you even if he says he's not. Sometimes guys will push a girl away because they're afraid of getting too close. Could be an ego thing too where he doesn't want to admit he likes you.

- He's curious to see what you're up to even if you're not talking. We can be nosey like that sometimes. Likes to keep tabs from afar.

- Low key wants attention from you even if it's just getting a reaction. Liking that you might still be thinking about him too.

- Still bothered or insecure about things not working out between you. Easier to blame you than admit his own faults maybe.

- immature way of trying to mess with your head and play games.

Hard to say his real motives, guys aren't always logical. But him saying you're stalking when he's the one still creeping your stuff seems like deflecting cause he got caught. I'd just try to ignore him and don't give him what he wants - your attention and reaction. Easier said than done tho, dudes like that can be annoying.

[laly520]

a creep doesn't need a reason to stalk

stay safe

[CVNT5]

thats kinda weird
if i was stalking a girl it would be because i like her and would want to get to know her better.

[Asker]

He wants to watch everything I say about him.