He says he doesn't find weird that we haven't seen nor texted each other for 2-3 days. I disagreed.. he promised to change that pattern. Am I clingy?

[Anonymous]

Tbh I doubt that he would really do something about it, but anyway.

He says he doesn't have time to miss me, cause I'm the one to always reach first.

Do you think I'm asking for too much?

[Drumlin2001]

It's not necassary to talk everyday, if you don't want to. But you need to talk and set some expectations. It sounds like you currently both expect different things

[Anonymous]

People who are serious about each other don't text.

[laly520]

no? people who r serious about each other also text
me n my boyfriend texted daily n now we planning to get married soon
texting is only a fast form of communication
it has nth to do with seriousness

[laly520]

in my opinion he isn't interested anymore

[Asker]

I asked him if there is something going on

[laly520]

did he respond?

[Asker]

He sai that his job is quite exhausting right now, cause things didn't happen as expected. I did visit him at work yesterday and it was a mess indeed.

[laly520]

thats a dumb excuse
he can have few seconds or minutes out of his day to text u

[Asker]

He was never a big of texter... I was initiating conversation 80% of the time.
And is basically doing it when he feels like I'm going to dump him

[laly520]

seems like u r the only one pushing

[Asker]

Well, basically it could be true... but I don't see why won't he just cut ties and break up with me, If he feels like it.

[spartan55]

Who is he?