Why do men desire women so much?

Question

I myself don’t understand, I do want men but not in a very eager way. I’ve seen many men that are desperate for women, desperate to touch them and hold them.

Lliam · Accepted Answer

Men are beguiled by women's appearance - their size; smooth, supple skin; soft subcutaneous fat; facial feature; petite, delicate hands and feet; boobs; slender waists; curvy hips; round butts and tapered thighs; vulvas, and vaginas.
Round, soft, smooth and supple are words that describe women and set them apart from men.
The fascination is built in. It's automatic; instinctive.

Women are nice to touch because they are soft and squishy. I like putting my hand around a woman's waist. The spot between her ribs and pelvis is pliant and almost like a handle.

And what guy doesn't like to squeeze a woman's plump butt or jellowy boobs?

I love when a woman slips her little hand trustingly into mine.

Women make me feel big, strong and manly.

Women's voices and mannerisms are charming. Because of their pelvic structure, they even walk differently than men. And because of their curves, they can undulate when they move.

Because of women's faces, voices, size and lack of muscle mass, they can appear sort of childlike and delicate to a man. They can bring out his tender, nurturing and protective instincts.

I don't mean childlike in a perverted way. Women obviously aren't children. And I'm not talking about women who act baby-like. This quote from an article explains what I mean:

"... many of the features which men find attractive and feminine are features resembling those of babies (small chin, small nose, large eyes, bright and smooth skin, etc.). Make-up applied by women, which is a universal phenomenon, is used to emphasize these attributes (making the eyes appear larger and deeper, smoothing the skin, concealing lesions, and making the lips to appear fuller)."

The reason men are generally attracted to youthful appearance in women has to do with a woman's reproductive potential which gradually drops off in a steady curve from age 20 or before to around age 45, not that women can't be very attractive well beyond that reproductive cut off.

But getting back to why men like women. Women are cute and cuddly. They can be fun to be around as an alternative to masculine energy. They aren't like men. They can be tender, compassionate, nurturing, empathetic and emotional.

Some men have been hurt by woman and have become bitter and distrustful. But this man likes women. Femininity can make my head feel fuzzy and tingly.

Song lyrics:
Me and Sheila go for a ride
Oh-oh-oh-oh, I feel all funny inside

And

Chantilly lace and a pretty face
And a ponytail hangin' down
A wiggle in her walk and a giggle in her talk
Make the world go 'round

236color · Accepted Answer

Testosterone is the hormone that promotes sexual desire in both men and women, (men also have naturally occurring estrogen, just not as much) and men have MUCH, MUCH more testosterone than women. Now it always happens that a woman is going to come along and say "Women have just as high a sex drive as men." No you don't, I know you what to be all equal, but no you don't. Have you EVER seen large numbers of women do the stupid shit men do to try to get laid. Have you ever seen a female incel? Have you ever seen a woman go on a killing spree because she couldn’t get laid. It's ok, I know you have sex drives, I know sometimes you would to like to have sex, and can't find anybody you want to have sex with. Many men can't find anybody willing to have sex with them at all, out of the whole of the female population. So yeah, they're desperate, starving, frantic. Often men see women hand out the thing they need the most for what, to them seem like arbitrary reasons. Some times it drives them literally crazy. Lots of them just decide to buy a 55 gal drum of lube a dive head first into pornhub and give up on real women.

Meanwhile lots of women are telling each other not to settle, and you're all out here competing for the same 5 dozen 6' tall, 100k earning, under 35 single guys in the country. News flash, those guys are going to STAY single. They don't HAVE to get married.

So then the non settling woman ends up living down the hall from a 5' 7" welder that makes 80k, owns a barrel of lube a won't look her way because he knows it's useless. And she has 4 cats, a trashy romance collection and a jack rabbit vibrator.

Booklover_90 · Accepted Answer

Perhaps you don’t understand because you’re not a man. Personally, I don’t wonder why or what the opposite sex does. 🤷🏽‍♀️

leahzrc · Accepted Answer

I know how to tame them. Plus I am very mean. Idc because they are all creeps.

ManInChains · Answer

I don't desire women at all. I'm attracted to women but I don't lust after them like majority of men do. Why desire something thatll just make me miserable?

exitseven · Answer

Women are awesome. They are the best thing since sliced bread. They smell nice, and can be great in bed. They cheer you up when you are sad and can make life seem not so bad.

Fireguy17 · Answer

I have always been fine alone, but I have seen plenty, both men and women want nothing else but to be with someone.

Anonymous · Answer

Men have like 10 times more testosterone, the "horniness" hormone. Men just have a much higher sex drive, it's nature.

Unit1 · Answer

We love women. You don't love men. Simples.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't desire women that much. I don't think women are that special to begin with.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

We're AC, they're DC. Opposites attract.

Anonymous · Answer

I have only felt that way about one girl.

Anonymous · Answer

Testosterone. You wouldn't understand.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Biology.

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