What are some telltale signs a man is romantically interested in you or even has a crush on you (small behaviorisms, etc.)?

[mrpk02]

For example: Lifting you up frequently, picking fluff out your hair, anything ALL guys do if they are romantically interested in a woman, that can tell you straight away he has a romantic interest, rather than a friendshippy one?

[DishLady]

Why is the guy lifting you? Unless you're being saved by superman, if he's all grabby and touching you -- AND YOU ARE LETTING HIM -- then you should know whether or not he likes you. (Wth is that on your list for? My goodness...)

If he touches you rather than tells you that you have something on your face/in your hair/etc. It's a tender and protective gesture that shows he cares, but it's not necessarily romantic -- though tbh most guys either ignore it, chuckle at it or TELL you that there's something wrong so you can go fix it. (Like the spinach in the teeth thing...)

If he wastes -- sorry SPENDS -- time on you then he most likely wants you, which you should know if you're actually 26...

If he smiles and approaches you while checking you out, he's attracted, but not necessarily romantically interested.

If he TELLS YOU that he's interested, then usually he's interested.

Remember... SEXUAL interest is not always ROMANTIC interest, so just ask him if he's having romantic feelings and then watch his actions... Is he sharing important details with you? Is he including you in his daily life? Is he connecting you with his friends and family? Is he making an effort to support and come to events that are of interest to you (e. g., church, class, etc.)? Will he literally lighten your burden by offering to carry your box/groceries? Those and similar things are romantic gestures.

[mrpk02]

hell nah men are confusing have you met them? He does the later things you mention a lot recently. His entire behaviour still confuses me tho. Bc it yells I LIKE YOU but he doesn't say anything about it and he told me he'd mention it if he'd have any interest in me. But he didn't yet, just been acting SUS

[DishLady]

SUS? 😂🤦🏻‍♀️ Yeah, ok. So if you’re feeling patient, wait another week or so. If there’s no weekly progress feel free to walk away and find someone a bit more attuned to you and to himself.

[BetaBucks]

Touching is a pretty clear one for me. And not just a friendly hug, but the kind of stuff you described, and more. I would never touch a woman like that if I wasn't interested in her romantically. Picking a girl up is pretty blatant flirting. I'd fight a dude if he picked my wife up.

[Nirmroth]

Putting in effort to be around you or at least seeking contact.

[dudeinohio]

They go out of their way to talk to you.

[BarryLiverstone]

There are no def signs