This question is more for the spiritual people?

[Anonymous]

last year my dad introduced me to his coworker and he liked me so we kinda started dating. He broke it off after 2 months saying i deserved better he is hurt by his ex and he is emotionally unavailable. I still think this is bullshit and he just used me, although i don't know what for because we didn't have sex (other stuff yes). My dad then quit his job for personal reasons not because of him. The breakup was not so seamless we still talked after a few times and he did random things like sent back one scrunchy with my dad after like 2 months of breaking up. Then recently he started to react to my posts on social media, then stopped, then started again. So he is weird but i got over it. But even back then he always found a way to be connected to me even though we didn't talk anymore. He was just everywhere until he eventually disappeared for a few months.

Well, life did a funny thing and he quit his job then started to work at another company, where ironically, my mother works at. So now my ex who was my dad's coworker is now my mum's coworker. And they talk during the job. He mentioned me but my mum didn't tell anything about it to me (she doesn't support this relationship never did). So my quiestion is not really about whether he is trying to come back? Well it would be funny if he did but i think even if he misses me he won't because it would be awkward. My question is rather that why is he always indirectly or directly involved in my life? Every time its like he comes back from death. Why would the universe bring this man back so many times he is everywhere in my life and it pisses me off. Unfinished business? Another lesson? Like whhyyy, whats the reason?

[WhitneySnow]

You can be used for other sexual stuff, not just sex

I’m spiritual too but I think his appearance in your life is just a coincidence

[Asker]

Well if this is a coincidence it's a very funny one. Curious to see if anything else happens though

[WhitneySnow]

Good luck

I really do think it’s a coincidence that he took a job at the same place your mom works. Most guys would not intentionally take a job at the same company their ex’s mom worked even if they did want them back. I guess it’s possible that it’s God sending you guys a message that you’re meant to be together.

[Asker]

Oh i didn't think he got this job on purpose, he didn't even know my mom works there until they met at work. I was just curious as in why these coincidenses keep happening with him because yes all these are coincidenses but God makes too much coincidence like this with this guy somehow. And i want to find out the message on why God sends this mf back so many times

[spartan55]

It pisses you off, yet you do nothing to stop it...🙄

[Asker]

These are all coincidences and we do not talk i just know what happens to him all the time because he is somehow always involved. How do i stop him from getting a job? I can't. It pisses me off that all these coincidences happen and i'm just curious if this is like a "sign" from the universe or whatever you call it because it keeps happening over and over again

[spartan55]

Aside from the job thing, I think a lot of this is in your head. You could have blocked him on social media, but you didn't. And how exactly did he use you if you weren't even having sex? (that might have been why he broke up)...