Why would they ask for photos with me?

[thatshydork]

So a few days ago my brother and his now fiancé had an engagement party. All their closest friends and family were invited and by the end of the night, many people were at least a little drunk. My mom had asked me to be a kind of photographer for the party so I was mostly busy taking photos instead of drinking. When I passed by two guys who were friends of my brother, they each asked for a personal photo with me taken on my camera. I said yes but it sort of confused me since I’m not the one who just got engaged and most people wanted photos with the soon to be bride and groom (AKA my brother and his new fiancé). Why would they want a photo with me?

Also, side note, one of them kept coming up to me throughout the party and even joined me in the living room towards the end and sat with me once I mentioned I was watching my favorite show. By then I had changed out of my nice clothes and into my pjs. Also at the beginning of the party he asked me if I wanted to split a mango with him and tried to cut it while looking at me and not the mango? I don't know the whole thing kinda confused me.

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1 y

I added him on Snapchat but he never added me back so I don’t think he likes me. Let me know what you guys think though

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1 y

Actually he did end up adding me, I was just impatient lol

[behnam1999]

Maybe, he's just fallen in love with you and finds you attractive.

[thatshydork]

Tbh I can’t tell if you’re being sarcastic or not

[behnam1999]

I'm not sarcastic. That's a very strong possibility, even though it might sound so simple to you. Why wouldn't he like you? And why would I have to be sarcastic?

[behnam1999]

Plus, you are good-looking and beautiful.

[thatshydork]

I don’t know. Him and I don’t really know each other all that well since we’ve only met like two or three times

[thatshydork]

Aww thank you

[behnam1999]

Do you really think that guys have to know a girl amd talk to her for a long time to decide whether they want to fall in love with her or not? It could be just feelings. They look at you, you look beautiful to them, and that's just it. You, not knowing each other for a long time, does not eliminate the possibilty!!

[thatshydork]

So like a love at first sight kinda thing?

[behnam1999]

Yes, of course.

[thatshydork]

Wait what do you mean it’s a strong possibility? (Not trying to be rude, just kind of confused)

[Keyboardkat]

Obviously these guys are attracted to you, especially the guy who sat with you in the living room. He perhaps saw it as a chance to get to know you a little. I don't think there's any mystery here.

[thatshydork]

Sadly I don’t think that’s the case because I mentioned that they wanted photos with me to my brothers fiancé. My brothers fiancé said as a joke “maybe they were hitting on you” and my brother right away went “no, that’s not the case.” When I asked him why, he said he just doesn’t want me to get the wrong idea.

[DishLady]

Aren't you part of the family? Why would you wonder about that?

[thatshydork]

I think I’m confused because the photos were with *just* me and each of the guys.

[DishLady]

🤷🏻‍♀️ 🤷🏻‍♀️ 🤷🏻‍♀️ Does the gender thing really bother you? When I was your age everyone took different pics together all the time and didn't fuss over this sort of thing. It's just your brother's friends, it's not like they were hitting on you. They were probably just trying to make sure you were in at least some pics since you were behind the camera most of the time.

[thatshydork]

Oh the gender isn’t an issue. I was just confused why they’d want a photo with me but I think you’re right about them wanting to make sure I’m in some of the photos.

[DishLady]

Yeah, super basic. Try not to worry so much. :)

[noohair]

Confusion is a mental health diagnosis, try perplexed. He sees you as a luscious piece of fruit, ready to eat.

[thatshydork]

Is that a good thing?

[Bklynbadboy12]

They asked cause they was attracted to you and just out of curiosity what type if PJ's was you wearing

[thatshydork]

An oversized tshirt and sweatpants.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Oh yeah you had you cute factor on full bubble 😉

[thatshydork]

I also had a messy bun and glasses (well I always have glasses on because I can’t see without them)

[Bklynbadboy12]

You had the sexy librarian thing going! (Cute) 😉😉😉😉

[Bklynbadboy12]

I love your profile pic

[thatshydork]

Thanks

[Bklynbadboy12]

Your welcome beautiful 😉

[nawtee_me]

Well you are an absolutely gorgeous woman and it seems like he might like you….

[thatshydork]

Thank you

[FarmBoy13]

He probably thinks you’re hot and is trying to get your attention.

[thatshydork]

Maybe🤷🏻‍♀️

[FarmBoy13]

Guys get that way. If we like someone we will just keep trying to interact with them while waiting for a sign

[thatshydork]

He wasn’t, like, flirting though (I don’t think) and he wasn’t blushing or anything in the photos we took together.

[FarmBoy13]

Yeah, we are complicated lol…… sometimes we don’t flirt

[thatshydork]

Also I added him on Snapchat but he never added me back so🤷🏻‍♀️

[FarmBoy13]

Yeah, I don't know then 🤷🏻‍♂️

His loss if he is playing games

[NathanDavis]

because you're a shy dork

[thatshydork]

I’m confused why that means they would approach me

[NathanDavis]

that can be intriguing or appealing to some...

[Anonymous]

Because you have a pretty face and an absolutely STELLAR rack!

[Opinion Owner]

That's an absolutely KILLER combo on a shy dork, just so you know! ;)

[MasterKS]

sounds like the game is slowly on!