Are these feminine or masculine traits?

[Anonymous]

innocence softness easygoing humble down to earth friendly kind helpful

feminine

masculine

[MisterWack]

“ innocence softness easygoing humble down to earth friendly kind helpful”
I’m a man, I see these as human traits.

I hate “Alpha Male Bro” content making us fight between what you can / can’t be, what you can / can’t do, and what you can / can’t feel or express to others or else you’ll be weak, feminine, girly, etc.

It is as toxic as my female aide yelling to me, “Boys don’t cry!” While I was balling my eyes out…. Being helpful, lending a hand, showing the soft side of you, being humble down to Earth willing to stand up for your fellow man or woman is beautiful, innocence is also good a trait since it means there is more for you to figure out about yourself and the world around you. You should always strive for me, be the best that you can be, and just be a function of society instead of a trouble maker.

[Asker]

so if someone has these traits and he's a man it doesn't mean he's gay right

[MisterWack]

1. If he happens to like someone who is of the same gender then he is gay, not from displaying human emotion.
2. Women like guys who have a soft side and a strong side, if you present with your warm, kind, empathetic, soft self they will be more interested in getting know you if you don’t come off strong. You can show the more masculine side of you as time goes on like hobbies, interests, etc. Showing kindness, respect, dignity to the person will make things easier to digest.

[jorfan3]

No, it doesn't mean he's gay. It just means he's a kind, sensitive individual. Why do you ask?

[MisterWack]

@jorfan3 Exactly

[Anonymous]

some are famine one is masculine and some are both

[jorfan3]

That's hard to say... because to me they are feminine, but the ultimate MAN has these traits, along with masculine traits. My husband is both soft and tough, innocent and wise, easygoing and great in emergencies, and very humble and kind, but he doesn't let people take advantage of him anymore. So they may be feminine, but a real man definitely needs to be in touch with both his feminine and masculine side.

[jazzy34]

Neither. Those are human traits.

[Asker]

so if a guy has these traits it won't make him gay or feminine nessesarily?

[jazzy34]

Of course not.

[Asker]

thanks for the insight

[jazzy34]

You’re welcome.

[MisterWack]

Exactly, it is human traits! ✊

[John_Cobretti]

First two are undoubtedly feminine traits

[Asker]

if a guy has these traits does it make him gay?

[John_Cobretti]

Maybe not innocence.. softness probably does yeah

[Asker]

hm okay thanks