What does a guy liking an insta story really mean?

[Anonymous]

I met a guy randomly one night, literally right after I was telling my friends that I was done looking for love and was going to focus on myself. We really hit it off and planned a date for the following weekend. We ended up spending the entire day and the following day together. He asked me if I was able to hang out the 3rd day, but unfortunately I was not. I have met all his friends and they all seemed really nice as well.

We had a really good time and really hit it off but he hasn’t made plans for a another date. He is terrible at texting so that is kinda dry, but he does like every single one of my Instagram stories. Should I keep pursuing this guy or should I leave it be?

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo man, liking all your stories on the 'gram is usually a good sign but with this dude it's kinda hard to tell since he's bad at texting too, ya know? On one hand, he's still showing interest by keeping up with your life online. But if he can't even plan another date that's lame.

I'd say give it a little more time to see if he starts stepping up his communication before fully writing him off. He may just be shy or busy, guys can be dumb like that. Keep the vibe light on social too so it's no pressure.

If he's still MIA in a week or two though, I'd chill on pursuing him so much. Reel it back in and do you girl - focus on your friendships, hobbies, whatever. Let him come to you for once if he's truly feeling it.

No point wasting your energy on a dude who can't even shoot you a basic "wyd this weekend?" text, as much as you clicked. You seem fun - his loss if he don't get it together! Keep your options open sis.

[spartan55]

So you have fun with him in person yet you want to get rid of him because he is a dry texter? So stupid...

So do you think when someone invests about 30 seconds per day for you that means they like you? They care about you?
You girls and those stupid stories...🙄

[teamvic]

Although it's not always the case, in yours specifically. It means he's still into yo ass

So I say continue