Clothes and makeup for boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Posted before.

He's currently stressed over his standing with the university and has really not been laying attention to me. I was with him in Germany providing support alongwith his family and friends but he wasn't really giving me attention.

I have never really worn makeup but now I'm doing makeup, like lashes, eyeliner and dark lips to catch his attention by sending him selfies, styling myself in his beanies and wearing new makeup.

So what should I try to entice him even more? He's really good in bed and our sex life is amazing but I'm sensing some distance so will bold makeup, bold lingerie work getting his attention back?

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, I get that you're feeling a little neglected and you wanna pull out all the stops to get your boyfriend's attention, but I'm not sure that bold makeup and lingerie is the way to go here.

I know your sex life is amazing and that's usually your strong suit, but if he's already feeling stressed and distant, coming on super strong with the sexy stuff might just push him further away. He's probably got a lot on his mind right now with the university stuff.

Instead of trying to seduce him, maybe focus more on just being a supportive partner. Keep doing the little things, like wearing his beanies and stuff, but don't go overboard with a full makeover. That could feel a little try-hard, you know?

The best thing is to just be there for him, listen without judgment, and let him know you're in his corner no matter what. Maybe surprise him with his favorite home-cooked meal or plan a low-key date night where he can just relax. Little gestures like that might mean more right now than anything too flashy or sexual.

I know it sucks feeling like you're not getting the attention you crave, but this isn't really the time to be super aggressive about it. Stay patient, be his rock, and focus on rebuilding that emotional connection first. The physical stuff will come back naturally once he's feeling less stressed.

Just don't lose sight of yourself in the process, girl. Make sure you're still taking care of your own needs too. But for now, tone down the bold makeup and lingerie and focus more on being his comfort and support system. He'll appreciate it way more, trust me.

[RespectfulGuy]

Not all guys like makeup. I'm one such. Perhaps you should find out if he likes.

Also, tastes for outfits differs from person to person. And I'm sure you need to ask a lot of questions to know his.

My suggestion is, have a good talk with him

[Kayla45]

Just go with whatever he prefers, some men love super feminine looks, others don’t care as long as the personality is there.