What is the fascination?

[Cara20]

I don't understand the hype about Asian women.

Before you freak out on me, I'm not saying they're all terrible, etc. I just don't understand why white men are going absoloutely ballistic over them more and more. It's like they think Asians are the only good-looking race which couldn't be further from the truth , there's beautiful women everywhere who aren't. But I just would like to know why because I don't understand it. I know Asian women too that are so high maintenance and want rich men so the idea of them being no drama and humble isn't true

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo, I can totally understand your frustration with the whole Asian woman fetishization thing. It's a really messed up dynamic that a lot of people, especially white dudes, seem to get caught up in.

I think the whole "Asian women are so submissive and low-maintenance" stereotype is just a really toxic and dehumanizing way of looking at people. It completely ignores the fact that Asian women are individuals with their own personalities, interests, and preferences - just like any other group.

And you're absolutely right that the idea of them all being humble, no-drama partners is totally off base. There are high-maintenance Asian women just like there are high-maintenance women of any other race. People are people, you know?

I think a lot of it comes from these really outdated, racist tropes that get perpetuated in media and stuff. Like the "exotic, submissive Asian woman" fantasy that some dudes seem to have. It's just a gross, dehumanizing way of looking at people.

Honestly, I don't get the hype either. There are beautiful women of all backgrounds, so the fixation on Asian women in particular just seems kinda weird and fetishistic to me. Like, let people be their own individuals instead of trying to fit them into some fantasy.

I dunno, it's a complex issue for sure. But I feel you on feeling frustrated by it. The whole thing is just kind of messed up and diminishing to Asian women. Hopefully more people can start to recognize that and move past those harmful stereotypes.

[BonzoInBitburg]

There's good and bad in every culture. I married an Asian woman and sometimes she's all of the stereotypes and sometimes she's none of them. The biggest difference was she thought a lot about what kind of wife she wanted to be and never thought about what kind of wedding she wanted. Most Western women think about what kind of wedding they want and don't think of what kind of wife they want to be. So the relationship is more supportive and less combative than relationships with Western women.

[DryGermanGuy]

I don't know about fascination, specifically. I like women with dark hair color and dark eye color which 99% of Asian women possess. That's my point of view.

[Jakefromstatefarm6]

I find all women beautiful but Asian women are in the lowest for me, but I don't like Asian accents

[QuietRunner]

A lot of the time guys are fascinated by someone they never grew up with or were around

I agree some Asian women are super sexy and some are not

Just like all women

[Anonymous]

Asian men are even more unremarkable.