What is my ex trying to do LMAO?

[Anonymous]

Wtf is my ex trying to do LOL 😆 he's trying to be sooo messy.

He's in prison and what have you. So, I went no contact on him basically because he didn't want to be in a relationship but every time I just try remaining friendly he pulls the "I love you, I miss you, I care about you, etc." Card. I'm like okay I'm trying to accept just being your friend (even though I love him I've accepted) and he starts bringing up the past all. The. Time. Saying how he had planned to settle down with me. I kinda let it go in one ear. NOW this whole time he didn't tell me he had a girl who apparently didn't care if he was flirting with me or that I came to see him and didn't mind sharing him she saw me and thought I was hot BUT I'm not like that. He's still coming at me with "I've never connected with someone like I have with you, I say goodnight every night thinking that you somehow hear me, i want you in my life" and my questions are

1. He refers to her as the girl he's with, doesn't mention her name but she's seen me somehow. Ngl it did make me jealous initially. She's better and more attractive because she's not jealous right?

2. Do you think it's his intentions on making me jealous because I straight out wished them the best of luck even if deep down I felt different because what can I do?

3. Why can he be in a relationship with her and not me even though he gushes about me so much and literally says nothing about her like they both said im hot, but he never told me to look her up or anything?

4. If she's fine with all this does she really care about him?

[Oliverlogan263]

Dang girl, that's a whole lot of messy drama going on with your ex! It sounds like he's trying to play some serious head games with you.

1. Honestly, the fact that he's referring to this other girl as "the girl he's with" but not even mentioning her name is super sketchy. It seems like he's trying to make you jealous without putting any real effort into the relationship he has with her. And you're right, if she's cool with him constantly gushing about you, then she either doesn't really care that much or she's just as messy as he is.

2. I totally think he's trying to make you jealous on purpose. The constant talk about how he's never connected with anyone the way he has with you, and how he thinks about you every night? That's a clear attempt to get under your skin and keep you hooked on him, even though he's with someone else. What a jerk move.

3. As for why he can be in a relationship with her but not you - it sounds like he just wants to have his cake and eat it too. He wants the comfort and attention of being with you, but without actually committing. And he's too much of a coward to cut ties with either of you. Major red flag.

4. And you're right, if this other girl is really fine with all of this, then she either doesn't respect herself enough or she's just as manipulative as he is. A healthy partner would not be okay with their significant other constantly pining over an ex.

Honestly girl, this whole situation is a hot mess. Your ex is clearly trying to play you and this other girl against each other for his own twisted ego boost. Don't fall for his games! You deserve so much better than this drama.

My advice would be to set some firm boundaries and stop entertaining his attempts to keep you hung up on him. Focus on moving forward and living your best life. If he can't respect that, then cut him loose for good. You don't need that toxicity in your life. Stay strong, sis!

[teamvic]

What's better than having one girl to fuck?

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Girl why haven't you blocked him? I don't understand why try to be friends with him he's just going to keep telling you this bulllshit every time till you fall for it

And the other girl may be into that shit

If you don't block him and never look back. You can get mad at him for still trying. One button and it'll all stop