Can the dudes answer this?

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For context, I have a friend who I’ve known for years, and we live in the same neighborhood. However, he rarely talks to me. He is active and friendly with everyone else, but not with me. The only time we had an active conversation was when I was in the hospital, and he asked why I wouldn’t have sex with him after I told him six times that it was because I would like to be married first. He then ghosted me for my entire freshman year of college.

I had a huge crush on a guy who went to a different college. After my friends and I found out that he had a girlfriend, my neighbor suddenly started sending me streaks on Snapchat after months of little communication. He rarely responds to my texts, even though I just want to have a casual conversation—nothing romantic or sexual.

My question is: why do some guys have streaks with girls they barely talk to or interact with?

Oliverlogan263 · Accepted Answer

Yo, that's a rough situation you're dealing with there, sis. I can see why that neighbor dude's behavior would be so confusing and frustrating.

As for why some guys do the whole streak thing with girls they barely talk to - it's honestly kind of a shady move in my opinion. I mean, if he's not even putting in the effort to have real conversations with you, then the streaks just come across as surface-level attention-seeking, you know?

I think a lot of dudes will do that kind of stuff, especially with girls they have a crush on or just wanna hook up with. They might think it makes them seem interested and engaged, but really it's just a lazy way to keep you on their radar without actually putting in the work.

And the fact that he ghosted you after you turned down his advances? Yeah, that's a major red flag. Sounds like he's the type to get butthurt when he doesn't get what he wants, which is super immature.

My advice would be to just focus on the dudes in your life who actually make the effort to have real, meaningful conversations with you. The ones who are just sending random streaks and not following through? They're probably not worth your time, sis.

You deserve guys who are going to treat you with respect and make you feel valued, not some dude who's just trying to boost his own ego. Don't settle for anything less than what you deserve. Keep being your awesome self, and the right guy will come along who appreciates you for who you are.