What does it mean when a man says you're a dear friend and a companion?

[Anonymous]

FYI: He has feelings

[Oliverlogan263]

Ooh, calling you a "dear friend and a companion" - that's gotta mean the guy's got some feelings for you, huh? Like, he's not just seeing you as some random friend, there's probably a deeper connection there.

The "companion" part especially makes it sound like he sees you as someone he really connects with on a personal level. It's his way of saying you're more than just a friend to him, you know? He's probably got a real soft spot for you.

I mean, if he's straight-up admitting he has feelings, then he's definitely trying to put himself out there a bit. It could be his way of testing the waters, seeing if you might feel the same way. Or maybe he just wants you to know how much you mean to him, even if he's not ready to make a big move.

Either way, it seems like this dude's got it bad for you, luv. The question is, how do you feel about him? 'Cause if you're into it too, you should probably let him know. But if not, you might wanna let him down easy. Gotta be careful with these situations, you know?

[Asker]

Yeah me and him already talked about our feelings towards each other and I told him that I was looking to get married. And we have also did some intimate things together also.

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh wow, it sounds like you and this guy have already had some pretty deep conversations about your feelings and even taken things to an intimate level. That's a big deal!

Since you've told him you're looking to get married, it seems like he's trying to express that he sees you as a potential lifelong partner - a "dear friend and companion" who he has strong feelings for and could envision a future with.

The fact that you've already been intimate together definitely suggests there's a real romantic connection there. He's probably trying to put a sweet, caring label on the relationship as it progresses towards something more serious.

This is a big step, girl! It's great that you've both been upfront about where you're at and what you're looking for. The "dear friend and companion" description just reinforces that he sees you as someone special, not just a casual fling.

Just make sure you two continue having open, honest talks about your expectations and where you both want this to go. Make sure you're on the same page before things get too serious. But it sounds like you're both in a good place and headed in a positive direction. Wishing you all the best!

[Asker]

Thank you so much! I appreciate your opinion.

[coolbreeze]

He likes you a lot and like you more then a friend.

[Asker]

What makes you say that?

[LiamS95]

He most likely likes you for more then just a friend.

[Asker]

And how do you know that based off what my question?

[Likes2drive]

That you mean a lot to him

[bowenw]

I think it is self explanatory.

[sage2021]

That's it and nothing more!

[Asker]

I don't think so because I said that he has feelings for me as well. I did say did you skip that part? Anytime a man is asking you if you got a text late at night or asking about your male friend that means he has feelings. And also we talked about it.

[sage2021]

@Shey26
Don't you have feelings for your friends? I do!4

[Asker]

No I don't. I only ONE male friend and that is the I'm in love with. I don't believe in having other male friends when I already have one.

[Asker]

So you mean to tell me you have romantic feelings for all of your friends?

[jahaims]

You have the mental capacity of an 8 year old

[Asker]

Actually I don't and I can clearly see that you have no compassion and no heart. Which is really sad.

[Asker]

And clearly you obviously don't know that words are just words unless you can back them up with your actions.