How to tell if a Sagittarius man is really into me?

[Anonymous]

He's my co-worker, he's a bit younger than me, but he's always roaming especially around the girls in the company. He's so charming and funny and he has that free spirit in him, he's not tied by any restrictions which I admire, and he's the life of the office. Everyday he comes to my desk, sometimes he teases me by typing randomly on the keyboard or turning off my monitor or startling me by clapping or whispering, sometime he asks about work, sometimes he uses my computer -without permission- to do something related to his work, sometimes he shows me memes on his phone or talk about non-work related stuff, he even showed me pics of his setup -he's a nerd-. I knew he's a Sagittarius cuz he asked about my birthday and my sign and he told me his, he also asked if I was in a relationship at one point. One day, me and my female co-workers ordered sweets and he joined us which wasn’t surprising cuz he always around the girls but he sat beside me, and I sensed he was uncharacteristically nervous. One day, he offered me a muffin. One day he offered to buy me tea -cuz i was coughing- and when I left the money on his desk he gave them back to me with a little tap on my wrist and a low voice saying "I get to buy you tea, not you." My desk is kinda facing the door to the office, so everytime someone comes in or goes out I get to see them. He glaces at me most of the time whenever he enters or leaves. Last time he entered, I glanced up to see him looking at me, holding my gaze all the way until he disappeared from view. These signs might screem "hell yeah he's into you!" But the thing is he jokes around other girls too to the point I feel jealous sometimes. Most of the girls treat him like the younger brother. Personally I treat him like a friend cuz we have a lot in common-gaming, drawing, anime, high tech, cats, etc-. I'm a virgo so i'm always quiet and very introverted, and he’s extremely active and social and very extroverted. What do you guys think?

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah, it definitely sounds like this Sagittarius guy has got a major thing for you! The way he's always hanging around your desk, doing little playful things to get your attention, and making little gestures like getting you tea - that's some classic flirty behavior right there.

The fact that he's a bit more reserved and nervous around you, compared to how he acts with the other girls, is a really good sign. It means you're special to him in a way the others aren't. And the intense eye contact when he leaves the room? Yep, he's got it bad.

At the same time, I can see why you might feel a little jealous of how he acts around the other girls in the office. Sagittarius guys can be total flirts, even if they don't really mean anything by it. They've got that free-spirited, charming vibe that makes them super popular.

But the way he's going out of his way to spend time with you, do little things for you, and connect with you over shared interests - that's not just him being a social butterfly. That's him trying to build a real connection with you.

My advice? Lean into it a little! Start flirting back, see how he responds. Match his playful energy, but also let him know you see him as more than just a friend. Sagittarius guys love a little chase, so make him work for it a bit. But I have a feeling if you give him the green light, he'll be all over you. Go for it, girl!

[Asker]

Thank you, mr! I suggested to throw him a birthday party last month and some of my co-workers felt something sus going on between us, but we did it eventually and he was very happy. I think he increased his time around me since that birthday party. I'm very shy actually and I don't usually flirt, so what do you suggest I could do?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ohh, throwing him a birthday party - that was a smooth move, girl! Sounds like he really appreciated the gesture and it's brought you two even closer since then. He's definitely been spending more time around you, huh?

I get that you're usually pretty shy when it comes to flirting, but with a Sagittarius guy, you might need to step it up a little. They tend to be pretty bold and free-spirited, so subtlety might not be your best approach here.

One thing you could try is finding little excuses to spend one-on-one time with him, just the two of you. Maybe suggest grabbing coffee or lunch together sometime, or see if he wants to check out a new restaurant or arcade you've been wanting to try. Creating those intimate moments can really help build that connection.

You could also try complimenting him a bit more - nothing too over-the-top, but little genuine compliments about his sense of humor, his work ethic, or even just how good he looks. Sagittarius guys love that kind of positive affirmation.

And don't be afraid to flirt back a little when he's being playful with you. A coy smile, a gentle touch on the arm - little things like that can go a long way. Just let him know you're enjoying the attention.

The key is to make it clear you're interested, but in a fun, flirty way that matches his personality. Sagittarius dudes respond really well to confidence and someone who can keep up with their energy.

Just be yourself, girl. If he's into you, he'll definitely pick up on the signals. And if it turns out he's not feeling it the same way, at least you'll know and can move on. But with the way he's been gravitating towards you, I've got a good feeling about this one. You got this!

[Anonymous]

Sagittarius men are really hard to figure out. If you like him, you may want to take the initiative and be upfront about how you feel. I'm currently dealing with another Sagittarius guy and he's so hard to figure out. But I think he likes me. I've hit him with the do you see me as just a friend or more than a friend and he definitely sort of said he does. But ultimately you need to take the initiative with them or you'll never know.

[Anonymous]

By asking him. No wonder why women think men are complicated you add in all this other nonsense like his zodiac sign to complicate things more. It’s not that complicated. You only make it that way.