Guys, guys would you text back a woman if she spoke to you like this?

[Anonymous]

i had an heated argument with my partner he always doubts my love for him and thinks i have all these standards that he doesn’t measure upto but its not true i love this person alott but he doesn’t want to believe it.

he wanted to toy with my feelings and make me feel like i come second in the relationship,

i texted saying take you bullshit and get out of my face and dont fuckin talk to me again.

it has been over 10 days since the fight and i tired of telling him i love him,

will he text back?

[RichA322]

It is hypothetically possible that he will text back. If he really loves you.

But it is very, very, very unlikely.

I think it's over.

But the way you described him, he sounds like a real narcissist. Like someone who manipulates you into constantly feeling bad and "not enough" and he is just barely able to tolerate you if you say "I love you" 24/7. So it's possible that he comes back to abuse your feelings again.

Or he is really, REALLY insecure and had bad experiences in previous relationships and therefore can't believe that he really is together with you. But he sounds much more like a narcissist.

But I would think, that it's over. And if he is always like this, you should be happy and move on.

[Anonymous]

No I wouldn’t. I’d think some younger girl would say something like this. But at your age. No. You sound childish. I’m sure he did some childish stuff as well, but doesn’t mean you have to act the same. Plus I don’t like women who use vulgar language. I could understand once in a while if she let a cuss word slip, but something like this just makes me think ghetto.

[Asker]

well he did say really mean things to me and discriminated the condition of my disabled arm. and he shows that he has a crush on my sister aswell

[Opinion Owner]

Ok what really mean things did he say?

[Asker]

he would make fun of the way i talk and would say im slow and would say my parents didn’t raise me with anything good in my life but i love my parents and im thankful for all the things i have.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok. So is this all true as far as what he said?

[Asker]

yeah it is

[Opinion Owner]

So then if you’re thankful for all the things you have than don’t let it get to you. Sounds like he isn’t a good person. I know it’s easier said than done, but you know how you feel about your parents. That’s all that matters. That is a low blow, very low that no one should hit at even if they are mad.

[Asker]

then what should i do? like just leave it alone even if he doesn’t text back?

[Opinion Owner]

How long have you two been together?

[Asker]

over one year

[Opinion Owner]

Has he always been this way?

[Asker]

yeah on the first date he told me to lose weight but i was not nearly fat at all. im just thick and lean. im 5’2 and 119 lbs.

[Asker]

could he be gay?

[Opinion Owner]

Doesn’t sound fat to me. I’m not sure if he’s gay. He sounds like an asshole for sure. I’d probably dump him. He’s going to treat you like garbage for as long as you’re a him. I mean if he’s taking hits at you about your disability. What kind of fucking person does that.

[Asker]

so i guess i shouldn’t care that he doesn’t text back then?

[Opinion Owner]

No. Move on. He’s scum

[Asker]

okay, thanks for your opinions xx

[Opinion Owner]

You’re welcome. Don’t let him treat you like this

[Asker]

got it, thanks xx

[FunkyMonkee]

I would. Love is a very hard thing to find and if it came a-knockin' on MY door (and I wasn't already involved), I'd open the door!!

[Asker]

do you think he will text back?

[FunkyMonkee]

It COULD happen but, I don't know that I'd count on it. My recent girlfriend just said that to me for about the 12th time in the past 2 months but she ALWAYS comes back! I kinda doubt she will, this time from what I'm seeing but, it COULD happen!
Kinda sounds to me like your guy doesn't think he's worthy of you.

[Anonymous]

Does it matter? You said, "don't talk to me again". Now you're going back on your ultimatum. How is he supposed to trust anything you say when you don't follow through with what you say.😆

[Asker]

im tired of telling him that i love him and he never believes it.

[Asker]

i got frustrated with his constant doubts but k was really good to him but i feel like my efforts just didn’t mean anything to him, im disappointed

[JonCobretti]

After that? Not at all.

Gender aside, why would anyone text back if the other person says "Don't fuckin talk to me again"

[dudeinohio]

You told him not to contact you.. its possible he wrote you off and is moving on.