Do you think my boyfriend should reconsider wearing sweatpants they are revealing his small outline which isn't particularly flattering?

[Anonymous]

The other day, my best friend was over when my boyfriend was heading out in grey sweatpants, and she immediately reacted, saying Oh no, he actually goes out in public wearing those?

I told her he does and she went on to comment about how that in her opinion, he doesn’t quite have the right dick to pull off sweatpants which is why she thinks I should say something to him.. I reassured her that he’s not small he’s just a grower not a shower. She said she understood but still joked that his outline was definitely giving off small pp vibes. I get what she’s saying but I think there is no way or mentioning it without with insulting him.

[Anonymous]

You're concerned about your boyfriend's sweatpants revealing his "outline" and how others might perceive it, especially after a friend's comment. You want to address this without hurting his feelings. In short: talk to him privately, focusing on your feelings and concerns about unwanted attention, not his body. Suggest alternative comfortable options, and be prepared for his reaction. Also, address your friend's comments separately, setting boundaries about discussing your boyfriend's body. Ultimately, respect his decision about what he chooses to wear.

[Anonymous]

No an appropriate conversation between women. At least in my opinion if he’s your man. You should have shut that shit down from the start. I don’t sit around telling my friends how small or big his girl’s tits are. Inappropriate. She needs to have respect for your relationship ship. He can wear whatever he wants. His body his choice right? Is t that how it works?

[virtualwasp]

Since when is your friends opinion of you boyfriend and his body more important than your boyfriends own comfort, happiness and style. You shouldn't have needed to defend your boyfriends body and try to assure her of his size. Why didn't you tell her, it's not appropriate for her to look at him like that and what he wears is of no concern to her.

[Asker]

I should just ignore that maybe girls are laughing behind his back?

[virtualwasp]

They aren't your friends if they are. If he asks you for an opinion give it, until them let the man be happy and comfortable.

[Red_Arrow]

If you feel that girls are laughing behind his back, maybe you should have him show them in its grown state. That should quiet them down.

[virtualwasp]

@Red_Arrow im just not sure why she has friends like this or is so easily swayed by others opinions, if her friends said she can do better and has a guy lined up. will she go for it as she it putting her friends opinion above others. its like they are reducing a man the to size and look of his privates through clothes.

[DishLady]

Sounds like it bothers YOU quiet a bit though it doesn't bother him at all. If you don't like what your guy's doing/wearing you can suggest an alternative, but bottom line is that there's no reason to change a guy if you actually like (and love) him.

[bowenw]

I suggest you tell him an outline is visible and let him decide for himself if he is comfortable going out in public that way.

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Kick him in the dick and balls. Might swell up to a respectable size.

[Wise4myage]

Talk to him about it?

[Anonymous]

he wear what he wants to wear

[Asker]

I should just ignore that maybe girls are laughing behind his back?

[Opinion Owner]

I have no idea

[In_Trance]

Don't worry about it