Do guys like introverted girls or extroverted girls?

Question

Whom do guys love to spend time with the most? Introverted or extroverted? And who would you bed with the most? Who turns you on more?

NoOneEver · Accepted Answer

I don’t think there’s one that’s more likable than the other.

Introverted girls are probably safer though. And less likely to cheat if that’s a factor.

If a guy is an introvert himself he might match better with another introvert girl. But meeting her will be difficult. Same with asking her out as both are introverted.

Whereas an extroverted girl might be more likely to ask a guy out regardless of whether he himself is introverted or not.

I’m not sure on what the male extroverts perspective is with women.

incorrected · Accepted Answer

There's no universal answer, however, about 2/3rds of all people are slightly introverted at the least, and people tend to prefer the company of those who are roughly as introverted/extroverted as they are. In today's world introverts have to behave in an extroverted way to find a mate.

Personally I would prefer an introverted girlfriend, because extroverted women tend to slut it about and move on when they get bored, and they tend to get bored easily because extroverts are like that.

WhitneySnow · Accepted Answer

Depends on the guy. I think more of them like extroverted girls, but some, especially (but not exclusively) introverted guys, love introverted girls.

coachTanthony · Answer

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CalmUntilAbused · Answer

It's definitely introverted girls for me. However, regarding "bedding with", I fully intend to only "bed with" one woman throughout my life. If an extroverted one can make me feel secure enough to make her my wife, so be it. Though I suppose it would be nigh-insurmountably harder for an extroverted woman to appeal to me compared with an introverted one. Extroverted girls tend to have more opportunities to cheat and are usually somewhat pushy, and both cheating and pushiness are traits I do not wish for, with the former one being an actual dealbreaker.

HawkPerception · Answer

Depends on the person. I used to think I preferred introverted because I myself was introverted. Now I've dealt with introverted girls and I don't like how hard or long it takes to get them to open up. I prefer outgoing women that aren't afraid to speak their mind and live courageously. They also make for more engaging conversationalists rather than me just carrying a conversation.

Different strokes for different folks though.

NicholasRedone · Answer

Depends on the woman ♀️ 👠 I like if she's playful yet she's mindful of being herself at the same time, it's sweeter when there's variety - I've seen women be proud in front of me and loud and also they tend to become more reserved as they realise a man is near as I'm patiently waiting - good to know I'm not invisible 🫥 in the queues or the surrounds lol 😆

nicfire171 · Answer

I think it truly depends on the guy. For example I’m pretty introverted and like the contrast and the being brought out of my comfort zone by an extroverted woman. But some people just do well with other introverted people because they want to be comfortable.

McLlovin · Answer

Just think of it this way: guys want to be the knight in shining armor. The more we feel needed, the better you will attract. Mind you im not saying be needy. Its just that Introverts tend to seem like they need to be protected. Beware though that some ment like outgoing women, so at the end of the day just be yourself and you’ll attract what wants you.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

I'm introverted but I do like an extrovert over a fellow introvert. I lack the ease social situations they have. So I learn from them. Plus theyll approach and I usually won't. Dealing with a fellow introvert is kind of like pulling teeth. I know they want to be alone a lot and so do I do we really don't spend much time together and that time we do is awkward and touchy.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

those are personal preferences, and fortunately, it looks like everyone can find their other half :D

Nikki1989 · Answer

There's no single answer, and it often comes down to individual compatibility.

Shiprex · Answer

I think introverted and working with her to become the expressive intimate one would be the reason for getting to know her.

RedThread · Answer

I don't have a preference. I lean more introverted so it would be more comfortable with an introverted woman BUT an extroverted woman would challenge me to try new things which is pretty exciting.

AnonAndrew · Answer

Trick question. Guys like the girl who puts out. :-P Most guys probably prefer a girl similar to themselves.

Purpleronnie · Answer

Being an ambivert , I’d like the same please but if I have to choose between them it would be introvert every time

RavVid · Answer

Bright and amusing is attractive to me but then if I am looking for a partner I'll be paying attention to character more.

WonderingManII · Answer

I haven't been able to be in a good relationship, but I think I would prefer extroverted, because all the girls I've got to be around were introverted and shy, and thus difficult to talk too.

RingOfFire · Answer

I've always preferred the shy introverts. Much more depth and attractively mysterious energy. Gets my juices flowing because it makes me want to crack her code (so to speak).😀

zagor · Answer

Depends on the guy. Most guys like someone who is comfortable going out socially but not necessarily the life of the party.

David318578 · Answer

Don't think I really care one way or the other, that's not a criteria for me wanting to sleep with her or not.  Which one are you, and are you struggling to hook up with guys?

MysticDevice · Answer

Definitely an introvert. Extroverts exhaust me. Its worse when they claim to be introverts but actually aren't.

Anonymous · Answer

If a guy is controlling, he likes his woman to be introverted and know her place. If a guy is not threatened by a woman, he most likely is looking for an extrovert.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I prefer extroverted girls, but I'm also an extroverted guy.

JohnnyB123321 · Answer

I like the middle ground. I’m the middle ground too and that is the type I seem to work with.

SAMI_DABBAB · Answer

The full answer is too long for anyone to read, a summary of what I’m saying is: “boobies.”

LiamJHayden · Answer

As long as she adores me I do not care. I am outgoing enough for the both of us if need be.

Rohaan2020 · Answer

I’m ok with both…. Just with someone with who i connect better

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Somewhere between both but more on the introvert side

altaboy · Answer

I prefer introverts because I am an introvert myself.

dragoblack · Answer

Depends on the guy. I personally like introverted women as being an introverted guy

Ladsin2 · Answer

Extroverted are easier to meet. Introverted are easier to keep I'd think. Prefer the latter.

kaucky1 · Answer

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SuperZonicGUY1992 · Answer

We don't like conservatives Karen's.  No guys does. They're so hateful!

Godihateyou · Answer

Extroverted. I married an Introvert and have been miserable ever since

krin_m · Answer

It depends on the other aspects of her personality more TBH.

Anonymous · Answer

They like extroverted girls. Unfortunately, no one likes introverted, weak people.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm introverted, that's why I prefer extroverted girls.

Yannae · Answer

I always kept an eye out for the introverted ones.

Pet68 · Answer

Either. I'm not so fussy.

Anonymous · Answer

Guys like genuine women.

Wise4myage · Answer

Definitely extroverted.

Professor-college · Answer

I would love a woman with a mixture of both

GAGsucksballs89170 · Answer

Diff. guys, like diff. girls, differently

PeterLegg91 · Answer

Introverted as I'm introverted

MikeRJ · Answer

I like ger to be on the introverted side.

rebelkid · Answer

Introverted is what I would bed

Lokiion · Answer

I like both

DrPepper12 · Answer

Yes!

Jennz6 · Answer

Blonde girls

dudeinohio · Answer

Introvert

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

A mixture of both.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

I can go either way

Smf1989 · Answer

I like them both

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