Was it nerves or something else?

[Anonymous]

At a talking stage with a guy. No "official" first date but he asked to meet me on my lunch break. When texting he disclosed some concerns (he's older, doesn't want people to "know" about us, something I'm not sure I'm comfortable with for a long period). He also text and said he liked me, and he liked talking to me.

When I saw him for lunch he did not seem to want to be there. He was quiet. I could not gauge how he was feeling. He had sunglasses on so eye contact was limited, and when we sat down outside to eat he sat a bit diagonal to me so I could only see the side of his face. He rarely turned his head to look at me when talking to me, and at one point abruptly stood up to go somewhere else to talk, leaving me behind to follow.

When saying goodbye, I could see through his sunglasses enough to see him wink. But the whole thing was all so bizarre and I truly have no idea what could have been going on in his head.

[236color]

The "I don't want anybody to know about us." That gives me suspicious feelings. Now being concerned about the age difference, how much are we talking about? Are you over 18? I gotta tell you that whole lunch seemed like he was trying to keep anybody seeing the 2 of you to assume you were together, why? Was this trying to create paussible deniablity? Again, my mind goes to either you're too young, (as in not legal young) or he in another committed relationship.

[236color]

Just saw your age listed, sorry hadn't noticed that at first. Ok, so if he's not a pedophile, then he's cheating on someone.

[spartan55]

"talking stage"...😂 😂 😂 Nothing will happen guaranteed.