Why do short guys get offended when you refuse their advances calling you mid attractive?

[Gwendoline]

I mean if you've already got a man are you going to just drop your knickers because they get a bit flirty and cheat with them? Do they think they are so charming that they are entitled to sex with you?

They get especially annoyed that if you are really short and are with a really tall man.

[Summeroflove]

People don’t like being rejected as for me if someone doesn’t like me based off characteristics I can’t control then they aren’t really worth my time anyways. But that’s just me personally but the reason is that they feel hurt and are trying to hurt someone else.

I don’t care who someone’s with people judge not matter what. If you’re with someone tall or pick someone short. People don’t like seeing happy couples who aren’t in happy relationships or aren’t in a relationship but wish they had one.

But there is women too who are super tall complain constantly about being rejected for height. But then say they only want a man as tall or taller. It’s double standards. Most of these men also have double standards as well don’t get me wrong in sone aspect or another. They want supermodel women but refuse to take a shower everyday.

Some women are overweight want a man to accept them for who they are. But want someone 6 foot and has abs. It’s just Tom Foolery.

[Gwendoline]

I see a lot of 6ft guys with abs with overweight women in America.

[Summeroflove]

I see many taller women too with shorter men. The point I’m making is people with double standards

[Summeroflove]

But absolutely. If they’re happy that’s what counts.

[MisterWack]

I think a lot of people (especially men) forget women also have a choice, they can simply say “no” and that should end all attempts to win them over since they are untouchable / off limits especially when they are dating someone already.

Men are persistent for sex, attraction, etc. but, refuse to accept “no” even if she is dating, that is messed up. I knew a girl who did encouraged this guy to cheat on his girlfriend with her, predictably so they ended up together until the guy she encouraged to cheat in the first place decided to cheat on her. Karma is a B*tch, the lesson was learned.

Basically, respect people’s boundaries, always be consensual, and when someone says, “no”, they mean “no”, also don’t try to flirt your way to someone who is already in a relationship because it will always end badly for you.

[Babygirl_S]

Because a good and attractive woman is not allowed to ask for what she deserves. This is how the world operates. The worst man is loved and the best woman is hated.

[sage2021]

How did you wind up in this situation when you have a boyfriend?
I can't even answer your question.

[Shiprex]

Yes this is a level of not cool cock teasing disrespect for the boyfriend and hence men in general.

[Gwendoline]

Women are allowed out of the house, it's not 1750.

[sage2021]

2 other members liked my opinion!!

[Shiprex]

To flirt with other men? To validate themselves with others? Hypergamy in action then

[Gwendoline]

@Shiprex to meet friends for coffee or meals, go to the theatre or movies etc

[Shiprex]

Why are you putting yourself in situations where guys think you are out and available?

[sage2021]

You never said for coffee ☕!! We are intelligent people and can read between the lines of what you are saying without actually saying it. Coffee... yeah right!

[Shiprex]

@sage2021
I think she was answering the previous point with me

[sage2021]

@Shiprex
I wasn't answering for you... just adding my two cents.

[Shiprex]

I know I don't thing Gwendoline was answering the general question just clarifying her 1750 statement to me

[Gwendoline]

@Shiprex situations like living my life? Am I not supposed to go to the gym or the store or wherever?

[Shiprex]

@gwendoline
If you're going there making it clear you're available for interaction and you know it then you aren't being responsible to your relationship

[Gwendoline]

@Shiprex so by leaving my home, dressing modestly without escorts of my husband or male relative, being friendly and talking to people that in your opinion is telling guys everywhere that I'm a slut? Are you saying muslim?

[Shiprex]

If you're going out to places where hooking up is common then you're putting yourself into situations that will get you approached. Almost like going into the sea and being upset there are turds there.

[Gwendoline]

@Shiprex are there turds in the sea because when you go to the beach you are walking in to the water to take a dump? If you are you need to stop doing that. There’s the immediate water contamination. Shit contains bacteria, viruses, and other nasty buggers. And your shit is more harmful to everyone else than it is to you. Keep it to yourself. When you look at what diseases it can cause, it’s an unpleasant list: cholera, typhoid, and hepatitis. On top of this, you could cause gastrointestinal issues or skin infections for anyone else too close.

[Shiprex]

@gwendoline
I was using an analogy that by going to the beach there are turds there. FISH, SHARK, DOLPHIN, TURDS get it? If it's ONLY human turds you're worried about then perhaps think of the life in the oceans dealing with all the crap we keep pumping in to THEIR WORLD.
So, you don't go to a place and behave in a way to make it appear to others you are interested in hooking up. If you're offended because someone called you "Mid" after you rejected them then decided to use their body to shame then then there's a whole host of toxicity (like the ocean) coming from multiple sources. LIKE THE OCEAN

[Gwendoline]

@Shiprex I didn't use their body to shame them. I just remark that it's always short guys. I'm really short myself, it doesn't offend me to be called short because I am short.
Can't stress enough how important it is not to crap in the sea or lakes. For instance i remember reading about an archeology site where they found parasites in the body of this mummified corpse. Basically every day these people would take dumps in the lake they lived near, then they would catch fish which had parasites in them. The parasites were coming from their poo which the fish ate. Was a crazy cycle. I guess they didn't know not to shit where they ate.

[Shiprex]

You literally USED guys height as an adjective to link to a type of behaviour which has nothing to do with height in the questions you asked. How is that not body shaming? Like saying what is it with girls and all that being so touchy about ABCD?

I used an analogy that went over your head about the oceans and shit. Forget it if I have to explain it.
Of course people in the past had less hygienic lives in history AND what is more interesting is that there are some places that have just been discovered where life forms may have never been discovered under deep ice for 10s of thousands of years. Water that's been under ice for all that time may have weirdly evolved creatures in it that COULD be disastrous.

[DonaldDarko]

They get offended because they're out right burnt out after a while. I didn't know about the height thing for a long time. Apparently height among human males is like a peacocks tail. I think it's equated to strength which women find useful. I never really knew this because some tall men are actually pretty skinny and not overly strong. I was surprised to learn that smaller males are targets of intimidation by larger males to the point of developing Napoleon syndrome or short man syndrome. They become aggressive to compensate, I've seen it over and over. Mind you this is without a doubt animal tier behavior. This is exactly what goes on with everything from chimps to alligators. Human beings are supposed to be sentient but it must be barely so.

[David318578]

I think lots of people don't take rejection very well. And when they are short they get rejected way more then others, and I would think that probably starts to take a toll on them.

If you are not into them then tell them, if they take it bad and lash out then who cares, that's on them.

[defon20]

Only those guys attracted to White women think that, which I'm not. White women are the ones primarily who have a laundry list of stereotypes someone must meet ON SIGHT or he's not worthy of courtesy. I grew up in Little Saigon and spent the last several years close to the Mexican border. East Asian and Latin American women have White ones SMOKED... in every possible aspect, of which 1 is only looks, so what White women think or want doesn't move me in the least. Guys who want them, can prop up their ego by moaning about them. Best of luck to those guys... I guess someone has to do it.😏

[Bricealan]

@gwendoline I went to college with a guy that was like that... he THOUGHT that he was more attractive to the opposite sex than he was viewed by many, and got shot down more than a few times.

Ignore those guys.

[Staximus]

Short guys get rejected all the time, it's tall guys that think they're God's gift to women

[Gwendoline]

My man is tall, he is God's gift

[Staximus]

Tall people always try to act like they are my boss or something. Then I have to heckle them

[Samuel75]

These kind of guys often impose their will on people neglecting the fact that women also have their preferences.
And sometimes the reason might be that they got rejected too many times.
Just try and avoid them.

[WhiteThought]

The same reason women get offended when you refuse them over their body count, career choice, masculinity, over use of makeup, etc.

[Gwendoline]

... boob size lol

[WhiteThought]

Some men reject over that

[DrPepper12]

Beats me n never noticed. I can't see over a lot of people...

[Jennz6]

I’m not sure but I prefer my men to be at least 6’ Tall

[larry69]

I am tall love short women but Noone is entitled to sex. Women have preferences

[RedInnocent69]

I would expect that’s not specific to short guys

[DCVsMarvel2]

Cause you're judging a book on its cover

It's like deporting innocent people, cause they're brown

[Gwendoline]

But I already have a man, they see the ring. Aren't they judging a book by its cover thinking i will cheat?

[Shiprex]

Some people wear rings as a way to attract attention of the fling sort especially if out in a pick up situation

[DCVsMarvel2]

Even if you didn't have a man, you can't judge a book

[beefcakebradybatson]

I'm 5'81/2" and STILL get hit on by broads !!!

[Billybob46]

Not sure, I don't. If they aren't into me, I'm not into them.

[jahaims]

Look at the psychology behind rejection if you want to know

[zagor]

What makes you think short men do this more than others? Or do you never turn down tall men?

[AndrésC64]

You could ask the very same thing but switch guys and girls.

[Panthero80]

Why would any woman go out with a guy of any attractivity level if she is taken?

[serious]

Some people refuse to take no for an answer.

[Anastasia86]

Cause your not allowed to have a preference.

[WonderingManII]

Probably depends on the guy.

[Anonymous]

Or you could not refuse their advances just because they're short.

[beenherebefore]

Don’t know how to deal with rejection.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Cause they're immature and can't handle rejection

[shortster]

Are you refusing because you have a boyfriend?

[Gwendoline]

For starters I'm not single

[shortster]

Why would anyone get mad at you for that?

[convo_king89]

We assume it’s cuz we’re short

[Anonymous]

Lmao 🤣 short guys suck ass

[Dongie]

Short how?

[Dongie]

It's not about the woman's choice, actually. I believe it's anger toward the status. The fact they have no complaint department nor is there any way to change their problem if being too short. So they take it out on the next best one. And with a 5 footer that matches up to their size, seeing them with a guy 6 foot four is like adding insult to injury. I don't think the women being bad mouthed are the victims in this scenario. Those guys go through an awful lot of pain and misery before finding a nice girl who doesn't give a shit that they are five and a half feet tall. That's why they develop what my dad referred to as the "little man syndrom."

[Gwendoline]

They under 6ft