Why dont men understand when a woman likes them a lot?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Probably because women are rarely direct in showing interest.

[In_Trance]

Probably because women don't explain themselves properly

[OneViewpoint]

Ah the "Mind Reader" disconnect again.

Women are risk averse and therefore indirect communicators. They are also a bit delusional. They will never just walk up to a guy and say "hey, I like you, wanna hang out some time"? That would mean putting themselves out there and risking rejection. Ooooh Nooo, that ain't gonna happen. Women have a better idea.

So instead, women invent all sorts of crazy subtle hints that all women agree are obvious as hell (to them) and represent near zero risk for a woman. They then expect all men to pick up on these cryptic clues from across a crowded room that's noisy as hell while the guys are talking to their friends. It's fucking delusional. You are hoping that men, specifically the men you are attracted to, will read your minds and come over to talk to you despite the risk of rejection which you yourselves are desperately intent on avoiding.

Some men can pick up on your crazy subtle behaviors, not all of us. Some have been called creeps for approaching a woman to start a conversation and are just not gonna go back for more of THAT to ruin their evening. Most guys are clueless as hell. Some of us may find you attractive, or not. Some of us may simply be fed up with your games and the whole mind reader thing. Some of us may not be in the mood to go through the whole charade after a long day at work or a tough hurdle in life. Some guys are "nice guys" and will never assume that your cryptic signs he's reading are actually intended to give him the green light to approach you. He will err on the side of not giving offense to anyone.

Why do women consistently refuse to see the insanity of their "mind reader" game and take accountability for their own refusal to take ANY risks to meet the men they want to meet? Cowardice. That's the only answer I can come up with.

[spartan55]

Man, this is pure gold 🥇 !

[Anonymous]

How do you mean? You mean when she drops hints? If so well because a majority of men don’t drop hints at things they want or expect. Men are not women. Just cause women act or speak a certain way doesn’t mean we do the same things women do. Women need to use their big girl words. Tell the man you like him. Stop hinting around.

[Anonymous]

Because women are cryptic and the opposite of straight forward. Half of women complain men don't "get it" when they flirt, and the other half complain they can't be friendly to guys because they'll misinterpret it as flirting. You know why? Because outwardly THERE IS NO DIFFERENCE. This is a problem women create for everyone.

[Cormac995]

Because your signals are far more confusing than you think. there's at least a 50/50 chance that if a guy isn't responding to your flirting, he can't tell your flirting.

[ballweevil]

there could be multiple reasons from insecurities, traumas, or never experienced love so he can't see clues

[Anonymous]

I can be very oblivious and sometimes get in my own head when I really like a girl.

[jahaims]

You don't know how to communicate if that is an issue for you

[Jeff51]

Our minds don't work that way. Like some of those winks women give.

[Johtolol98]

for me it has to do a lot with obliviousness or not feeling she could really love me

[spartan55]

Because they act like they hate him.

[Panthero80]

We are simple creatures.

[MasterKS]

mens brain in mostly not in their head. LOL!