Does it mean you’re ugly if you tell your male coworker “wow we have a lot in common “ after meeting and he gets hot & cold a bit?

[Anonymous]

Yes you’re unattractive

No doesn’t mean that

[Finchie40]

It doesn’t necessarily mean you are ugly , unless you are ugly and you walk around calling yourself ugly. which I highly doubt you do lol but it could mean he just isn’t interested in you that way , it takes more than just looks for someone to be into you , personality is a big part of it and the way you present yourself as a person , I reject beautiful girls’ at times because I don’t like their personality, of thinking their shit doesn’t stink , that act like they are better than everyone else around them , if she is snooty and high maintenance, I will not be interested in her at all.

[Asker]

Oh okay that’s okay.

[Finchie40]

Remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder, just because someone might not think you are attractive, it doesn’t mean everyone else is going to agree

[Asker]

Well I’ve never been chosen so maybe it is my looks

[Anonymous]

Girl! Quit asking this. It has nothing to do with you being ugly. Sometimes there’s just no chemistry. Or he could be too shy (although we’ve talked before and I don’t think that’s an issue in this case).

[Nikki1989]

No, that is more related to awkwardness and confusion about boundaries.

[spartan55]

How in the world are you connecting those dots?

[chenyu]

Maybe he is not good at expressing himself!

[Asker]

What is there to express? Lol

[wkhan_87]

No ,,