Meaning and reason behind Rough sex?

[Anonymous]

What makes two people have “rough sex”? Is it passion? Longing? Or rough sex is normal in relationships?

My ex texted me last night and told me he would “fuck the shit out of me” and “it would probably be some of the roughest sex”

and for some reason those comments stuck in my head all day…

[mysteriousNicholas]

I've often wondered this too it implies they either don't care about each other or one does or they just care about getting off aka orgasms

[Anonymous]

Another perspective is that your ex may not have had sex in a long time. There is a lot of built up sexual tension. He's ready for some spice.

[jazzy34]

Sometimes, when you’re really aroused, you just want to be pounded. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[DreamCrescent]

indeed.

[SamIam96]

So many women say things like that, that it must be true. When I'm really aroused, I crave edging. I wonder how often guys and their partners do that vs. rough.

[Kabluie]

Sometimes you just want a pounding, maybe a little choking to go along with it kind of rough sex. Hot and heavy style can be a better arousal.

[bowenw]

There is no normal. Some people enjoy it.