Guys, What’s something you wish women understood about being a guy?

[AnneTheLady]

[Hardon-Collider]

That in order to understand all about guys you first have to be clear on everything there is to know about girls. It would be useless to say "guys are annoyed by nagging" until you are aware of how and why girls nag. Which many women aren't even aware of.

Equally as useless as it is for guys to try to "master the female psychology" while being blind to everything about themselves. This is supposed to sink deep but it probably won't.

In the process of men coming clean on their own nature and women on theirs, they also learn a shit ton about not just the inner, "spiritual" part of humans that applies to both genders, but too the process of how a gender itself molds the stream of that other part of us that isn't gendered, which helps you see more of the "human" in your gooning material beyond them being just a gender-drone.

By seeing the space for the potential in others to be less of a gender-drone (just made that term up), you yourself become less of gender-drone. It's the real free will vs automation talk you should have, and any a. i. mongering is futile without this. Being a gender drone is mental-energy-efficient. It is an early form of automation and unconsciousness that technology risks making total and permanent, without humans needing to ever think deeply and effortfully again.

That basic nature about yourself. Learn that first. Then basic nature about humanity and its evolutionary task. Then understanding the opposite gender becomes a piece of cake. ㅤ

[Finchie40]

That intimacy and affection is pretty much important to us and it's how we feel closer to her, it's how we express our love to her. Unfortunately, a lot of girls assume we are just thinking with our dicks, and that can be true, if the guy is just trying to get laid, but that isn't true if the guy is in a relationship with you. We don't get into relationships to be single, we get into a relationship with her because we want to be closer to her and feel loved and wanted by her. If she stops having sex with us , then it hurts us deep down inside, it makes us feel like we are unloved and unwanted. So if you girls" want your relationship to last , give your man sex often

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I don't care, I'm not "the guys", I'm just one guy, so whatever she thinks about guys has nothing to do with me. It only creates a problem when she looks at me like I'm "the guys". That's just the theory, in practice I've seen women looking at me as an individual, not a clone, so everything was okay.

[NathanDavis]

that not all the guys are the same...

so even when one guy tells you "I wish you understood this about us"

that such one thing might be just about him but not true for other guys... lol

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Right

[Shy_Steve]

The loneliness of Men

When women feel lonely, it is often seen and spoken about. When men feel lonely, it is usually silent. Many men carry that loneliness for years, sometimes their whole lives, with no outlet, no reassurance, and no one asking how they are. That is why men don’t just need understanding—they need sympathy too.

[DonaldDarko]

Nothing comes to mind from my view point we should be done with human sexuality and be using artificial means of reproduction. Reproduction is the entire purpose of the thing and machines can do it better on a mass scale.

[Anonymous]

Nothing. If she a quality woman she already understands enough. Listening and having empathy goes a good long way. You don't need to know exactly what it's like to be a man anymore than a guy needs to know exactly what it's like to be a woman. It's just good if each has compassion for the others experience.

[aceleon]

we are not woman, we don't feel or think like you do, stop judging us and changing us into fitting your idea of what we should be like.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Each dude is different personality wise so this question is impossible to give a correct answer.

You have to talk to the individual himself.

[236color]

That our sex drive is not a crime. Acting on it without consent is, but just being aroused isn't.

[Danny_dan92]

We have feelings as well. So something that bothers a woman can likely cause the same effect on a man. Just depends on what it is.

[Alex-Snow]

That we have emotions and feelings also but often do not express or show them. What have you noticed with your boyfriends?

[Vegasrunner]

That men are only as faithful as their options. If you want an exceptional guy you're probably going to have to share him.

[beefcakebradybatson]

We're both (at least should be) gentlemanly and randy, so we'll be courteous but want your body !!!

[Anonymous]

@annethelady the difference in male hormones requires us to be visual creatures and creatures who have urges 💘🤗 consensually of course

[blackeagle007]

You ought to see the movie “Act like a woman, think like a man”

[BEANGENOS]

too much. its not worth the time and effort.

would rather die my all my thoughts then deal with backlash from women.

[rovitampabay]

Women add so much sparkle to life. Life would be so boring without them.

[RavVid]

That we aren't girls?

[NerdGuy89]

Its tiring and lonely.

[Anonymous]

That tight female asses drive us wild!