Guys...do you find it slutty if you see a girl grinding?

[Anonymous]

So I was at a party, and I was grinding hardcore with this guy I know...Then, my other guy friend comes and tells me that I am acting like a whore. I got so offended because I was just dancing...you know...having a good time.

I then confronted him later and asked him about it. He said that I could dance just not like that. Yeah, I admit, I was grinding wayy to much than anyone else.

So guys, do you think this is a turnoff? Do you immediately think a girl is a slut when you see her dancing like this?

[meAsking3111]

Maybe it depends, I mean if someone just makes a quick judgment on someone based on something like that then they aren't worth knowing. I can see how someone seeing it could think that, but if you are having fun and you don't care how other people look at you then do what you want. If how other people look at you makes a difference, like you are going to get some job and someone is taking pictures of you dancing like that and putting it online, then think about it and don't do it.

Slutty is sleeping around. If you aren't doing that then you are not slutty, but if you grind like that and it gets you off and you like it, it might help you get some release and not sleep with people so it help you not be slutty in a way too. The only other thing I'd be concerned about would be the guys that you ar dancing with thinking you are easy and having to deal with that.

[Juicebowl]

At one particular junior high school dance, a girl I was interested in grabbed my hand and dragged me to the middle of the floor and began grinding on me. I was completely ignorant about this kind of dancing and not knowing any better at the time, I joined in and got carried away. At least guys don't have to worry about being considered sluts --jk.

The point is that this kind of dancing is rather offensive to those who might get a glimpse and it's the same for making out while you have an audience. I"m not saying you can't do it at all, just keep it light and show some courteousy to the people around you.

[alioup]

ha ha ha if what the guys is true then I am deff a slut.

For me it';s just danicing. I dance with lots of guys and have lots of fun. hell at one dance I was at we (me and a couple other people) ended up wrestling.

Wrestling and danicing it;s anything sexual to me. But appartly according the the guys here I am a slut, oh well I have fun and that's all that matters.

As long as I don't bring the guys home that I dance with it;s fine with me.

[helms_girl]

Ever thought that maybe this friend of yours was jealous? I've never heard a male complain about a hot girl rubbing herself up against another guy before. Keep his up-bringing in mind. If he is religious in his beliefs then that may be why he took such offense.

It sounds to me like this guy was trying to protect you for one reason or another. Either he truly like this guy you were dancing with or he just wishes that he was so lucky.

[laxerr]

yeahh like at parties all the guys love me after and are all over me and fight each other (not physically) over me and are all after me

[ericseba]

It's one of those deals where you'll be very desirable to all the wrong guys and for all the wrong reasons.

[antivenin]

Guys enjoy the physical sexuality of it. What a man doesn't like about a girl has very little to do with her sexuality and a lot more to do with her quality but these are longer term relationship issues that have nothing to do with grinding on the floor so it makes little difference. I have noticed that slutty girls have deficiencies in their womanhood that are a turnoff. The sexuality is never a problem. My guess is that they do this in order not to have to be confronted with their inadequacies as women so that they may enjoy the company of men that they ordinarily would not be able to.

[regular-guy]

Yeah, it is kind of slutty. It is not really dancing--doesn't take much skill and really geared more toward sexual arousal (sort of like public foreplay).

So you will do what you want, but IMO it is sort of slutty, and yes I would assume that a girl who danced like that was likely very promiscuous and morally loose.

[diegoD]

your friend and you are dumb. most women are whores anyways, you pay for them one way or another.

if you like being slutty, what the hell is wrong? you are liking it and so is that guy

if a guy finds it unatractive, then ignore them. soem will apreciate it

[J-cool-Swift]

U sound really jerky...u don't even know her that's one and 2 not all women are whores or sluts or prostitutes if thts the style which she chooses to dance then so b it.

[Jaleel]

i think that its hot because thts the best way to turn on a guy and no I wouldn't think your slutty it would make me think your a partier, doing your thing, and having a great time. tht sounds pretty sexy to me

but hey tthats my opinion for you

[slugger]

seriously? you kidding me right? lol I mean then like 12 year olds are sluts lol link

[metaldave20]

its slutish/whorish but it doesn't make you a slut/whore, I say go for it, if you like doing it, whos to tell you how to dance I mean if its something you're good at, you may as well be caught being great...

[Smurfguy]

There is the "OMG I'm a slut " grinding and the "just dancing" grinding. Its a turn off for me if she is touching you all over and trying to have sex while dancing haha

[Anonymous]

Yes. I wouldn;t go so far as to call it 'slutty' but it definitely gives me that sort of impression about her. Its ok to do it with your boyfriend (if you have one) but if you do it with other guys then yeah people will probably think that of you

[WeaponZero]

kinda yeah... definately someone I wouldn't want to go home with unless it was to have a night of fun and then never see em again.

[Littletad]

I tend to stay away from girls like that.

But that's just my preference, every guy is different.

[Gstage1234]

its just dancing!

if guys think its slutty that's stupid. guys love it and always compliment me, but I'm no slut.. I can't believe they think that!?! whatever.. haha

[miikex29]

Yes a girl grinding is just so slutty. I Hate it when I see 5 guys on one girl. the only exception I say is if you were dating the boy. if you were not then yeah, your a slut

[J-cool-Swift]

i agree, but she's a partier. LOL

[MylesF]

Sounds like the guy who complained was jealous because he's into you.